quick quistion

[grimlip]

Ok my quistion is, am I gay? I mean I like girls. And I want to marry a girl. But I masterbate to guys sometimes. I sometimes just feel like masterbating to guys, I don't know why. I'm not against gay people in any way but I would never marry another man. And.. maybe I'm emotianlly attracted to women and physically to men. I don't know, anyone have an idea?

[Trademarked]

wow, it's amazing... this was almost exactly my first post on vt. well, from experience, i turned out gay. and i was in your exact position. but there is really no way to tell from here. you could either be gay, bi, or straight. you just have to wait until you're done/mostly done with puberty. because during puberty the hormones in your body go crazy and you get all kind of emotions and feelings. i was so confused through that stage of life, and now im okay, so just wait it out. it's up to you whether you're gay or not.

it's good to see somebody like me... almost like a flashback.

[what the?]

Yeah, I mean, sometimes it's the most frustrating thing EVER, but only time will tell, if only there was another, quicker way to find out. And even if you're sure, still wait it out some more lol, because you might change yet again. Just try not to get too stressed about the whole thing, and things will sort themselves out by themselves...

Good luck man!

xx

[Rooster]

More likely than not, you're not gay. Sexual arousal has nothing to do with gender, it has to do with sex it's self. Being turned on by men doesn't make you gay, and chances are you'll move on. But being gay isn't the end of the world anyway. Homosexuality has no restrictions or anything (besides marriage in some states, but that's changing), and you can still lead a productive life.

R.I.P Freddy Mercury

[Chrono]

You are the only one who knows if you are gay or not. But to me it just sounds like you are aroused just by the thought of sex, regardless of gender. But, if you are don't sweat it, nothin wrong with being gay.

[xTheLordsServantx]

dont worry
i hav lots of friends who are attracted to guys and then they think theyre gay but then a few days later theyre gettin head from girls. if u cannot see urself marrying a man, then chances r ur not gay

[Kev*]

i think your just going through a phase, but we cant reall say if ur gay or not, only you can decide

[mr_smite1]

Never fear yourself, if you do turn out 2 b gay, just embrace it. Its prob you just feeling randy by the thought of sex rahter than who it is. I myself am bi, but i was in ur position ;)

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

i just think that its hormones and ur going through stressful times of puberty like all of us. also, i strongly agree w/ what chrono said, that ur arroused by sex regardless of gender

[fdsgfg55465]

you're not gay

[WannaKnow]

you are not gay i do the same things sometimes, and i turned out str8.

[xdeviancex]

im in the same position im a bit too arroussed by guys but im all about the girls :) i dont want to be gay im too straight for it... it does suck...

[rockster18]

Ok my quistion is, am I gay? I mean I like girls. And I want to marry a girl. But I masterbate to guys sometimes. I sometimes just feel like masterbating to guys, I don't know why. I'm not against gay people in any way but I would never marry another man. And.. maybe I'm emotianlly attracted to women and physically to men. I don't know, anyone have an idea?


Hey I feel the EXACT same way as you. I find myself liking a girl but then I'll think of a man when I masterbate. Anyways don't let it get to you. It's hormonal.


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