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cooldude123
April 21st, 2010, 01:59 PM
Hello again!

Straight to the point... Basically, for about 2 weeks, i have been going out with this girl. Everything went fine when asking her, and nothing has gone wrong, which is good! Anyway, we have been out a few times to just hang out or go to the cinema's, but i have never known the oppertunity to try to kiss her. If i was to, it would be my first kiss ever, so i don't have a clue what to do. We're possibly going to the cinema's next wednesday, so i thought that would be a good oppertunity. I just don't know really when to do it or what to say... I could just go for it, or talk to her about it, but it might go wrong if i do. I really don't have a clue, to be honest...

Thanks for any advice given :)
Kaius
April 21st, 2010, 02:35 PM
Well, when in doubt the best thing to do is talk about it. You never know, she might be worrying about the same thing. You'll know in yourself when the time is right, but don't feel you like have to do it or it'll mess up or something, thats quite unlikely to happen. Just watch her body language, that'll often give you the signs. But the best thing to do is talk to her about it.
Kahn
April 21st, 2010, 09:55 PM
I agree with Aaron on this one. You need to talk to her about it instead of just rushing into things. Make it known that you haven't had a kiss and maybe she hasn't either (Unless you know she has of course). She might even help you.

Again like Aaron said, you'll know when the time is right for your first kiss. Make it special, because most times people do it out of peer pressure. I know I did.

Good luck.
Lucas
April 22nd, 2010, 01:25 AM
Dont worry about kissing her, it will happen when the time is right, you shouldnt force it. Just wait for a romantic moment, and it will happen. Good luck.
Bard95
April 22nd, 2010, 02:30 PM
Dont force her but ask her. It could turn into a romantic by asking her to help you(if shes kissed before) but if she hasnt still ask her. If you guys are this in love with each other, dont worry because it will happen when the time is right:)
Hollywood
April 22nd, 2010, 07:24 PM
Dont force her but ask her. It could turn into a romantic by asking her to help you(if shes kissed before) but if she hasnt still ask her. If you guys are this in love with each other, dont worry because it will happen when the time is right:)

I agree with everyone else. Ask her about it, if she feels you two are "there" yet, you don't want to kiss her if she dosen't think you guys are ready yet. If you don't feel comfortable asking or kissing her, then just don't. The time will come eventually, don't rush it.

Hope I helped.