First Kiss Help

[yankeefan7723]

So I just started dating a girl that I've admired for a long time about 2 weeks ago. We haven't hung out oustside of school yet but I'm trying to get her to come over my house soon. In the meantime, we haven't had our first kiss yet. Now my friend is like in shock of this and asks me why I haven't already kissed her but I don't want our first kiss to be outside of a classroom. I want it to sort of be like this. She comes over, we chill, have fun, then one of my paren'ts drive her home. Then I'd walk her to her door, tell her I'd see her tomorrow, then go in for the kiss. However today instead of allowing me to simply walk her to her class then when we got there say our goodbyes and give each other a hug, she stepped to the outside of the doorway like some couples do to get their last kisses in. But we just exchanged a few lines, hugged, and left. Was she ready for it then or not?

I just want to know should I wait until I think the time is right or should we have our first kiss be in front of tons of other people in a hallway in school to make sure she doesn't become frustrated with how slow things are going?

[Kaius]

I think you should leave it until both of you feel comfortable. The best thing to do if you're wondering, is to ask her about it. How she feels etc. Then you'll know what she thinks about it all, whether its going to fast/slow and what she wants to happen. Don't let anyone else's expectations make you feel as though you have to rush into it right away. Watch her body language around you, they'll more often than not give you some idea of what she wants. If shes relaxed around you etc. Hope this helps.

[Lucas]

I've been in the same situation. Everyone is different and people will be ready at different times. It took me almost a month to kiss my gf. And we've been very happy ever since. One thing you shouldnt do, dont plan it. Well what i mean is, dont force it, it will happen, trust me. You just might need to wait until you both have a romantic moment and then you and your gf will kiss. its all about timing. you will know when the time is right because you can really feel it. And about her getting frustrated, just ask her. Just remember, dont force it. Sometimes waiting and taking it slow can help build into a wonderful relationship. I waited until the time was right, and were still going strong. It will happen when the time is right. Good luck.

[Hollywood]

You should defiantly wait.

If you try kissing her the first time you two meet up outside of the school, chances are she'll freak out and leave. Just wait until you feel comforable, maybe ask her beforehand wether or not she thinks you two are ready for that.

Hope I helped.

[staying_alive]

So I just started dating a girl that I've admired for a long time about 2 weeks ago. We haven't hung out oustside of school yet but I'm trying to get her to come over my house soon. In the meantime, we haven't had our first kiss yet. Now my friend is like in shock of this and asks me why I haven't already kissed her but I don't want our first kiss to be outside of a classroom. I want it to sort of be like this. She comes over, we chill, have fun, then one of my paren'ts drive her home. Then I'd walk her to her door, tell her I'd see her tomorrow, then go in for the kiss. However today instead of allowing me to simply walk her to her class then when we got there say our goodbyes and give each other a hug, she stepped to the outside of the doorway like some couples do to get their last kisses in. But we just exchanged a few lines, hugged, and left. Was she ready for it then or not?

I just want to know should I wait until I think the time is right or should we have our first kiss be in front of tons of other people in a hallway in school to make sure she doesn't become frustrated with how slow things are going?

Dude, don't fret it. I was in a similar situation, and even had a similar plan to yours. However, i chickened out when dropping her off. Trust me, it takes some balls if you get psyched up about a particular situation when you want it to happen.

I've found that lying down is the best way to kiss, but that's just my personal preference. Otherwise, for me anyway, it's awkward and you both kinda don't know what to do.

I suggest watching a movie with her or something (not in a theater!) and just getting real close. It'll happen if you just let it. Don't be all worried about it, cause it's really not worth a lot of thought.

Good luck, keep us updated!

[Cloud]

We haven't hung out oustside of school yet but I'm trying to get her to come over my house soon.
or how about you take her out someplace nice, go round town or something or bowling
In the meantime, we haven't had our first kiss yet.
oh no its the apocalypse
Now my friend is like in shock of this and asks me why I haven't already kissed her
Child....
but I don't want our first kiss to be outside of a classroom.
sooo actually go somewhere fun so shell be having fun and knowing that your fun so she actually wants to kiss you
I want it to sort of be like this. She comes over, we chill, have fun, then one of my paren'ts drive her home. Then I'd walk her to her door, tell her I'd see her tomorrow, then go in for the kiss.
and id like a bajillion pounds to fall out of my wardrobe but that aint gonna happen, why has stuff that really isnt all that important gotta be so scheduled and planned, whatever the fuck happened to spontaneous romance
However today instead of allowing me to simply walk her to her class then when we got there say our goodbyes and give each other a hug, she stepped to the outside of the doorway like some couples do to get their last kisses in. But we just exchanged a few lines, hugged, and left. Was she ready for it then or not?
dont kiss in schools, gossip queens are watching

I just want to know should I wait until I think the time is right or should we have our first kiss be in front of tons of other people in a hallway in school to make sure she doesn't become frustrated with how slow things are going?
solution to her thinking your slow and boring TAKE HER OUT SOMEWHERE NICE
and by nice i dont mean maccies
sowted

[sum1got2]

I totally think it's sweeter to wait til the right time. Something nice and- personable will be muchhhh better than outside a classroom!

[LoveMe_HateMe]

just let everything happen on its own, dont force anything to happen. Everything will come together nicely in the end ^_^

[Inconvenience]

u must make it happen the way u want it to happen. if u want it to be special, let it be :)

[NeedyTeen]

until the time is right, but not too late. it's been over a month since me and my bf have gotten together and he still hasnt kissed me. im frustrated and angry cause now i feel like he doesnt wanna kiss me...but it could just be that he wants the kiss out of school like u. basically, do it soon before it's too late.

[Cloud]

until the time is right, but not too late. it's been over a month since me and my bf have gotten together and he still hasnt kissed me. im frustrated and angry cause now i feel like he doesnt wanna kiss me...but it could just be that he wants the kiss out of school like u. basically, do it soon before it's too late.

Or he respects you and doesnt want to piss you off by overstepping a boundary that hes placed,
maybe you take the lead in it?

[NeedyTeen]

Or he respects you and doesnt want to piss you off by overstepping a boundary that hes placed,
maybe you take the lead in it?

im very shy so i dont think id ever be able to make the first move.
im not saying he doesn't want to kiss me, im just saying that that is a possibility. u know.