View Full Version : Why....i cant understand
Snake217
April 20th, 2010, 02:04 PM
My family and my best friend think im gay, idk why, IM NOT, it really annoys me, and its getting suicidal toughts on my head.
IDC about my family, i hate ost of them anyway, but why my best friedn thinks that? ive never done anything gay, he has seen me cry for a girl that ditched me, why he thinks that? why he keeps bothering me with that?
He once told me that with his old friend, they used to play gay for joking, like grabbing each other hand and stuff, its not like i want to do it, but i wish we couold get along like that.
hes my best friend, and he says im his, but idk, i sometimes feel hes lying, why doesnt he trust me like that? why cant we get along perfectly? when i havent done anything to make him beleive this kind of stuff
Scarface
April 20th, 2010, 02:10 PM
If you know In your heart that you truly aren't gay then just have a sit down with your best friend and explain to him that your not gay. Your family on the other hand just let them think what they want. It will be a fun rub in the face once you bring home a girl friend. I hope everything works out With you and your friend. PM me anytime If you need someone to talk to I'm always here :)
Marcie
April 20th, 2010, 02:19 PM
I was in the same situation at one point, my parents thought I was gay..
I'm with Ronnie here, just sit down and talk with them.
Kahn
April 21st, 2010, 09:52 PM
Open up to your parents and express your feelings. Just like Ronnie said, you need to sit down with your friend, but you need to do also with your family. It is not right to leave them in the dark of something, especially this. They should have no reason to think you are gay especially if you know that you aren't in your heart.
Good luck.
blounster2
April 21st, 2010, 10:09 PM
ur just going to have to give him an ultimatum. Beleive more or your not my friend
DrkZ90
April 21st, 2010, 11:26 PM
My family and my best friend think im gay, idk why, IM NOT, it really annoys me, and its getting suicidal toughts on my head.
IDC about my family, i hate ost of them anyway, but why my best friedn thinks that? ive never done anything gay, he has seen me cry for a girl that ditched me, why he thinks that? why he keeps bothering me with that?
He once told me that with his old friend, they used to play gay for joking, like grabbing each other hand and stuff, its not like i want to do it, but i wish we couold get along like that.
hes my best friend, and he says im his, but idk, i sometimes feel hes lying, why doesnt he trust me like that? why cant we get along perfectly? when i havent done anything to make him beleive this kind of stuff
Perhaps he has something to tell you, and is probably trying to figure out if you are ok with gay people and stuff?
Also, have you talked with him about how you get along?
MacMilker
April 21st, 2010, 11:27 PM
Not to make it worse but maybe you think your not gay but you possibly are?
Shortkid
June 26th, 2010, 04:38 PM
Not much of a friend if he can't believe you on something like this. Maybe when you get a new gf (and u will) he'll believe. Don't let what others think get into your head. It aint worth it.
Chris
Aspiringanonymous
June 27th, 2010, 01:00 AM
I know you're trying to help, but please refrain from posting in threads over one month old, thanks! :locked:
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