Virgin Pride
April 19th, 2010, 06:05 PM
I am 14 (since Feb) and I have never kissed a girl. I have been in the situation where I could have done it but I didn't. I guess I got too nervous. Anyways, I never really liked the girl. But that was about 2 years ago.
I have known a girl for about that same amount of time (2yrs) and I really like her. We flirt ALL THE TIME. "Not like 'hey baby' flirting, but just playing and bothering each other flirting."
And now (what are the chances of this?) we are partners in the lab for a week. (only 4 days left now though D:)
I think she likes me. Well I know she does, she keeps telling me about who she is rejecting (because people keep asking her out) and I hear a muffled "I am single" every once and a while.
But I have never asked a girl out before! I have had them ask me but I have never done it. And even if she did say yes, does the first kiss just come naturally? Do i just have to wait and let the relationship develop? Do I need to do something?
I just need some advice. I know I am nervous, but I don't exactly know why.
My "role in school" isn't considered popular either. I know that doesn't bother her, but other people will annoy me. I am a nerd, but not a stereotypical one. I am active, I work out, I am good looking, I have a tan, "I am not afraid to take off my shirt" (14 yrs, 105 pounds, haha) (every adult friend of my mom makes fun of me and says "oh I bet girls are all over you") I try not to let other people bring me down, but it is not easy. I only have a few "real" friends, but most of them are girls. (like that visit my house, and go to ride bikes with, or go to the movies) I am short for my age (barely 5'3) but I look about 11 and my mom tells people that sh she can pay less money when we go out to eat!
Oh yeah and I talk too much! :D
More talking: I think my problem is that I don't have a father figure to ask these questions to. I have a dad, but I never see him. It's just me, my mom, and my lil' sister.
I have known a girl for about that same amount of time (2yrs) and I really like her. We flirt ALL THE TIME. "Not like 'hey baby' flirting, but just playing and bothering each other flirting."
And now (what are the chances of this?) we are partners in the lab for a week. (only 4 days left now though D:)
I think she likes me. Well I know she does, she keeps telling me about who she is rejecting (because people keep asking her out) and I hear a muffled "I am single" every once and a while.
But I have never asked a girl out before! I have had them ask me but I have never done it. And even if she did say yes, does the first kiss just come naturally? Do i just have to wait and let the relationship develop? Do I need to do something?
I just need some advice. I know I am nervous, but I don't exactly know why.
My "role in school" isn't considered popular either. I know that doesn't bother her, but other people will annoy me. I am a nerd, but not a stereotypical one. I am active, I work out, I am good looking, I have a tan, "I am not afraid to take off my shirt" (14 yrs, 105 pounds, haha) (every adult friend of my mom makes fun of me and says "oh I bet girls are all over you") I try not to let other people bring me down, but it is not easy. I only have a few "real" friends, but most of them are girls. (like that visit my house, and go to ride bikes with, or go to the movies) I am short for my age (barely 5'3) but I look about 11 and my mom tells people that sh she can pay less money when we go out to eat!
Oh yeah and I talk too much! :D
More talking: I think my problem is that I don't have a father figure to ask these questions to. I have a dad, but I never see him. It's just me, my mom, and my lil' sister.