A Few Issues. HELP.

[Cristina]

Okay well im new to this, and i have a few things i wanted help with. so im posting them all in this thread, hopefully you can help. Thanks! (:

1. Im made fun of at my school. its because of how i look. its not because i look funny, its because my boobs are too big. For my age i have unusually large breasts, and while nobody says it to my face, people do make fun of me. often. Its quite annoying. And i was just wondering if there is any way to hide this?

2. before i turned 14, my twin sister and i were home alone and watching tv. We accidentaly found a nude channel and my sister said she was going to go "Change" And i knew what she was going to do, so she went into our room. I thought since nobody could see, i just masturbated on the couch. and my sister actually was changing, and she walked out and saw me. She told me she didnt care, then came over and sat by me and starting doing it too. We didnt touch eachother, but we both had orgasms at about the same time. IS this incest? Is this weird? has anyone ever done this before, and has it effected your relationship with your siblings?

3. I think im addicted to masturbating. Recently, in the past 2 months or so, i've been doing it up to 6 times a day. I know that sounds weird, but i started doing it because my cousin bought me a vibrator. Any tips on how to stop doing this less or helping me stop? Thanks!

[NeedyTeen]

i wish i had bigger boobs. :/ so im not sure if i can help with that.

no, it's better that masturbating with your brother im my opinion. a lot of people do it. i wouldn't, but im shy .

i dont like masturbating a lot, i dont know why. i just dont. i see a lot of comments where people do it min 6 times a day,. so dont sweat it. :)

[The Madman]

No ur absolutely fine with masturbating like that. Its normal for your hormones to be like that.

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[DoveGreySands]

1. You'll probably find that as time goes on you'll get less and less mocking. I had no boobs at all till i was 16 but when they came boy did they, I've had no trouble from friends when it comes to boobs, but be prepared for an awful lot of staring (and quite a few girls asking if they're real)

2. Not incest, it wasn't sex with one another, don't worry about it, it is just experimenting. Some may say it's wierd, but i've done the same thing with my sister. Never effected our relationship.

3. At your age it will be all those hormones raging inside you, after a while you will calm down, it's just one of the things that happens in puberty.

[ashleighhxbby]

girl, be proud of what God and your mama gave ya (;
People -especially girls- are particularly jealous about... well, everything.

As for the sister thing, I see no problem with it. I mean, ya'll are blood related? It ain't a big deal. As long as you don't touch each other, I think you're okay. It's not incest.

Now, with the masturbation.
You're a teenager, right? It's understandable. It's better to masturbate 6-8 times a day than go out and screw 6 guys, am I right?
(:
lol bad analogy, I know.

Well, I think that's all that I can really ramble about.
(:

-Ash<3

[Bridgett]

im made fun of at school to beacuse of my breast size so i started wear a thin strap tank top with a bulit in bra and more jackets over my shirts

[LoveMe_HateMe]

don't be ashamed of having big boobs, you should be proud of them, and hey just think you'll never need to get a boob job like so many other women do :P

i dont see anything wrong with you and your sis doing that...just as someone above me said, as long you didnt actually touch each other, i don't see it as incest :)

and hey, your a teen don't worry about it :)

hope this helps you =)

[Hanyo]

Cristina, not sure if you've found the answer(s) you're looking for, but here's some ideas:

1. There are ways to dress that will reduce how obvious your chest size is, but your classmates are already aware that yours are big, so isn't it pointless at this point to try to hide it. Just dress modestly so that you're not advertising them to the world. Kids are cruel sometimes, but be strong. In time your chest size will probably make you more popular.

2. Mast-ing with your sister around isn't incest as long as you're not touching each other as people have said. Is it normal? Who knows? It depends on what you define as normal. I would say its not "normal", but I've heard that it happens more than I would've ever expected. I never mast-d with siblings around, I don't even know if they have ever even mast-d once... but none of us have ever done it in front of each other.

3. If you feel that you want to stop doing that, or reduce the frequency at least, there are some things you can do that might help:

- avoid things that make you horny, like the nude channel, trashy romance novels, daydreaming about making love, etc...

- when you start to feel horny, try to change your activity to something that will distract you from the feeling like going for a walk and try to think about something very non-sexual, like what you can do to let your grandma, grandpa, or parents know you care about them, go for a jog, or other active exercise, or... read the... BIBLE?? (it works)

- Don't punish yourself or feel too guilty about doing it. Guilt can tell us when we've done something wrong, but at times it can be very harmful to us. Also, guilt strangely has the ability to make us feel like we want it more. Something about our brain makes the feeling more intense when we feel guilty, and somehow that makes it harder to resist the next time.

- Reward yourself somehow when you feel like you've some improvement or reached a goal.

Hope that's helpful to you, and take care ^_^

[lcode]

girl, be proud of what God and your mama gave ya (;
People -especially girls- are particularly jealous about... well, everything.

As for the sister thing, I see no problem with it. I mean, ya'll are blood related? It ain't a big deal. As long as you don't touch each other, I think you're okay. It's not incest.

Now, with the masturbation.
You're a teenager, right? It's understandable. It's better to masturbate 6-8 times a day than go out and screw 6 guys, am I right?
(:
lol bad analogy, I know.

Well, I think that's all that I can really ramble about.
(:

-Ash<3

i agree!!!:)

[lexinthecity94]

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