I am the worst friend EVER!

[lagiacrus]

Problem Fixed


I feel like a total idiot!

I met somebody on VT and we are ok friends now. Exept, we live on opposite sides of the world right. Now, if you ask my friends, they will tell you I always look for more information. I always want to know more things, it is just my nature. Sometimes its good, but in that case, I did one of the worst possible things to my new friend.

I googled his User for curiosity reasons, mostly to find his Facebook account. Anyway, I found his facebook account... and his surname. Then my brain went into retard mode. I dont remember what happened after that, but now I know what town he lives in. After that... I found out his address on the online White Pages.

I feel like and idiot and a stalker. I feel like I am the worst friend in the world, and just having a fight that broke me and my best friend up makes me feel even worse. I just feel like I cant do anything right to get a friend and that I will be lonely my whole life. I feel so guilty and just... sick.

I didnt know what was happening. I am the most absent minded person you can ever know, I do things in my own little world, excluding my thought of normallity and I just.... what is wrong with me!

Edit: I have no thought of doing anything with it at all. It is quite useless to me, considering I am 14, and on the COMPLETE other side of the world. I just feel guilty and sad for having it in the first place.

[Baudelaire]

its normal to want friends, we're alike in away you know, clingy, attached to people, but you have to give people space or they get scared off. I understand you might want to know more about someone, but you've got to maintain some distance, ESPECIALLY on the internet, that can send a very bad message, just apologize to him. I'm sure he,ll understand.

[lagiacrus]

its normal to want friends, we're alike in away you know, clingy, attached to people, but you have to give people space or they get scared off. I understand you might want to know more about someone, but you've got to maintain some distance, ESPECIALLY on the internet, that can send a very bad message, just apologize to him. I'm sure he,ll understand.

Thanks. I know I go way too fast. I am still waiting for him to go on. Why cant the Earth be flat? Then we can all be in the same time zone!

[Art_dude]

I feel so sorry that you feel so guilty over such a silly thing! Take a load off bud. Yes you may have went a little overboard, but you didn't actually STALK the guy. If I found a friend on VT's facebook account I would be curious about that info as well. And seeing as your friend never told you to NOT look him up on facebook I don't see the issue. (I'm not justifying what you were doing was 'right.' I'm just saying it's not all that 'wrong' either.) A simple apology will suffice. I'm sure he'll understand. :)

[lagiacrus]

Thanksfor the help guys. Spoke to him last night and he wasnt angry at all. All sorted out.