I Did It.

[Pudd]

I told my cousin that im Pansexual today. She was in the car going home at the time that i sent her the IM. I feel relieved, but quite strange at the same time. I hope she doesnt take badly to it :(

[misery_business]

what does pansexual actually mean ?

[Pudd]

what does pansexual actually mean ?

It means you dont base your sexuality on the gender of a person, but how they are as a person.

[misery_business]

so is it kind of like being bi ? well ...well done !!:D

[Pudd]

so is it kind of like being bi ? well ...well done !!:D

Yes, its like Bi, but less confined. It doesnt matter if theyre transexual, male, female, or a hermaphrodite as long as they are a good honest person.

And thank you :) She's on MSN now, but i feel a bit scared to start talking to her :/

[SneakBrain]

nice job now u don't have to worry about anything

[misery_business]

well she's family and i think she should have the right to know :) I guess it would be kind of scary talking to her about it right now, but you are who you are :) maybe some day you will just be comfortable talking about it with your family! :D

[Pudd]

I guess it would be kind of scary talking to her about it right now

I asked her to treat the message as if she hadnt even recieved it. I just needed to get it off my chest. I did want her to know, but she goes "Awww" whenever something remotely sweet happens, and she happens to find gay people very sweet and id find it very embarrasing.
Another reason for only telling my cousin is because in the car once my nan asked if i was gay and i said no. Then she said
"Thats a shame; i wouldve had such a fun time shopping for blouses and girls pants for you"
She wasnt joking, and is one of the people who thinks all people who arent straight are transvestites and really camp =/

[misery_business]

well tell her about it, that not everyone is like that ! maybe tell her to just treat you like she normally does and it's not gonna change anything :)

[Pudd]

well tell her about it, that not everyone is like that ! maybe tell her to just treat you like she normally does and it's not gonna change anything :)

Here is what she said to me:

ok ... let me look up what pansexual is...
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
It means you dont base your sexuality on the gender of a person, but how they are as a person.
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
nice one
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
See, if i said that when you were here, it wouldve got all awkward
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
nope, i would have just asked you about it
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
Also i didnt want you asking "Do you think he's hot" etc
Because i still prefer girls overall
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
did you think he was in republic though.
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
Lmao... see
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
no but serously
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
ish
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
Awh jayyy
so pansexual, is it a little like bisecual
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
yes, but less focused on gender


She is "Samantha i'm a muggle
Im R.I.P. Vinnie Doon

[misery_business]

well she seems ok about it :) I don't think you should be that worried about it i guess, she just wants to know about it really.

[Pudd]

Yeah, its just a bit embarrasing, this part in particular:

R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
Also i didnt want you asking "Do you think he's hot" etc
Because i still prefer girls overall
Samantha i'm a muggle says:
did you think he was in republic though.
R.I.P Vinnie Doon says:
Lmao... see

[misery_business]

maybe she will stop later on, you know ... when it's not that big of a deal :)

[Pudd]

I hope so n.n;;

[curboy8]

im curious

[misery_business]

im curious

..? care to extend that statement... :lol: