i dont know confusion.....

[Dog Desab]

okay here we go.... my friend, abi and i, used to be great friends.... and always kinda liked her but only as a friend. i first started to like her at this assembly (dont remember what that was about).. but anyway during the assembly i sat a row below her and for awhile id flirt and call her the hottest freshman girl and stuff like that (She wasnt even sitting with her boyfriend)... then when i would try to act as though i was focused on the assembly. (but i can act really detached and seem to not care at all about her, but im actually being obversant to see the little things she might or would do to get my attention) so i did this and then she would touch my neck and her hands were cold and soft... anyway i would tell her to stop but then she would touch me again... so then we got these questionare thingy that would match you up with another person. and me and her answered the same questions with the same answers... that day i decided that she must like me in a potential boyfriendbut i dont real kinda way...

a potential boyfriend but i dont really know him kinda way.... so after that we would talk sometimes in the halls of school... 3 weeks later i got drunk with my friend crystina and i was texting abi and she said she was bored in town ( live in a small town) so me and crystina drove to pick her up.... and being the drunk idiot i was, i told her that i liked her than asked her if she liked me???? and she said i dont know.... she had probably broke up with her boyfriend a week b4... so i changed subject talked about random stuff then aske her again and she said "yeah, i mean your you" even tho im drunk i thought 'ugh i hate how evry1 thinks im their friend' so i told her that was a stupid reason just bcuz im popular... l8r that nite after sobering up i txted her and she told me that she liked me but was having a hard time getting over her EX.... so i told her that okay then but ill wait till blossom (a carnival that comes to town every year) to see if she wanted to go out. 3 months from then i get drunk again

im drunk at my friends watchin a movie playing with a puppy... then i text her to see if i could come over but she was having a get together with her freshman friends... and says idk... then i tell her it wouldnt be a problem so then she tells me that her EX says that i shouldnt let go... i flip a shit and say why would you listen to your EX about another guy and then freakout and catch her in lies about leading me on and call her a bitch and a liar.... (uncalled for i know) after that we stop talking for about a week... then i start to feel bad and think that she wasnt leading me on but just didnt feel like being bothered by me and my drunkness... so i write her 3 notes with her favorite candy. telling her i was sorry and felt bad and couldnt prove shd ever lied to me in the first place.... 2 weeks later(today) she randomly comes up to me acting as tho nothing happened.... I am confused and clarify my thoughts!!!!!! PROM is coming and is the subject of every girl in school.... she knows i like her and

planned on taking her but am kinda shy about that stuff (plus our fight made not talk to her till today) idk but i guess im asking do you really think she likes me, wants to go to prom since freshman arent allowed, or feels it time to forget the subject, or what??????? plz want some advice....

[nick]

just ask her

[eltomo]

tell her how you feel, if she likes you she'll go to the prom with you

[misery_business]

yea, be confident just ask her :) hope it goes well :)

[Dog Desab]

im already uncomfortable about the whole thing

[misery_business]

if you don't feel like you can do it and feel uncomfortable don't put yourself through it :)
it takes alot of courage if you guys have been good friends, but you can always at least try :)

[Dog Desab]

i mean i would ask but i have to make sure that we are both over our lil fight first

[misery_business]

then just talk to her and ask her how she feels, maybe ??

[Dog Desab]

i just noticed ur a girl.... so if this were to happen to you would you like to talk about to get over it??? i just dont wanna bring up the bad feelings

[misery_business]

You said she was acting normal like nothing happened right ?
so you could just talk to her and like make sure that she really is ok and that your still her friend, make her feel nice and all :) maybe bring up the prom thing if you still wanna sk her

[Dog Desab]

alright then i just need some alone time with her then

[misery_business]

yea :) hope i helped a bit, and good luck x

[Dog Desab]

thnxxxxx :D :D

oh just to clarify this when i said that prom was coming up i meant to say that i feel like she could be using me to go bcuz she cant being a freshman.... and she doesnt know i plan on taking her but i think that she suspects i want to ask her

[misery_business]

what does she think about you asking her, do you think she would accept only because she has no one else or because she wants to. If she suspects that your going to ask her how does she react ?
does that make sence lol ?

[Dog Desab]

if she suspects im gonna ask her i can see her being nicer to get a fun nite out of it... i can see it as a big motive but only bcuz its prom and prom is such a big deal to girls... totally stereotyping but thats okay!!!! i mean i have trust issues and find reasons for people to get along with others cuz in reality most humans use people to their advantage and to be truthful i like it when a GIRL tries to do it to me.... cuz it makes me feel as tho they need me... superiority complex.... anyway yea i do think she would use me to go bcuz she has no 1 else (hopefully)

[misery_business]

well i can't exactly help ya anymore, its all up to you and her now :)

[Dog Desab]

alwighty thnxxxx anyway.... :D youve been a big help

[misery_business]

aah im glad :)

[Dog Desab]

wtf???? shes already goin with someone to prom.... my ex best friend!!!!!!!! gahhhhh, but i hear they are going as friends so its all good hopefully....