View Full Version : What's my probelm?
Frankenstein's Bride
April 13th, 2010, 04:27 PM
Ok everyone i know says i'm the nicest, hottest, kindest person they know yet i'm barely in relationships and when i do the guys adore me too much that they become spineless. Most the guys i know have fancied me and i get chatted up all the time. But it's always mingers, creeps and guys that just want to do me and i'm not like that. It's either the bad chat ups or people being to scared to ask me out because they think i'm in a different league from them. Ok yeah i'm from a well off family and i'm pretty but does that make me unattainable? is my prettiness stopping me from being happy? or is it the fact i'm never out meeting new people (due to a friends jealousy)?
My question is why can't i be happy and have a good relationship? ask anything you like if i've not been clear.
Kaius
April 13th, 2010, 04:41 PM
Tbh, its more likely to be the friends jealousy that's affecting your relationships really. My previous relationship was wrecked by my ex's friend because of jealousy and tbh it can really put guys off. But if you aren't out there looking for new people and trying new things you'll have less chance of meeting someone. Some guys are shy, and do believe that some girls they like are out of their league, that's really just down to confidence. If you like them and you can see they like you, then make it obvious to them. It might give them that added confidence of asking you out.
Frankenstein's Bride
April 13th, 2010, 04:52 PM
My friend has lots of friends and i always ask to meet them. But the problem is she always complains people like me more so she won't let me meet any of them. it's so frustrating and until i go to college or get a job i can't really meet new people. And whenever i go out it's just the mingers and the creeps that hound me or the pervs. I think i just attract the wrong sort of dude :/
Kaius
April 13th, 2010, 04:54 PM
What about a social club or something outside school? If you're away from said friend you might be a bit more relaxed about it. It may seem like that at times, but there are some nice guys out there. It just takes a little while to find the right one. Don't give up its the worst thing you can do
Frankenstein's Bride
April 13th, 2010, 04:59 PM
thanks for the advice i'll try and sort something out. I think my friend being mad at me all the time is getting to me and all the undesirable guys are disheartening.
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