Need help deciding.

[RedTheViking]

Ok heres the deal.
Theres a girl i love with all my heart. right now.
The chances of being able to go out with her are very slim to none.
Then theres this other girl that i like but could most likely learn to love.
The chances of going out with her are high to very high.
What do?
im confused.

[Scarface]

I think this all comes down to who you would feel most compatible with. If you feel that you In love with the girl you may not have a chance with, take a chance you never know what the outcome could be. If that fails there Is always the other girl you could get to know her a little more and ask her out. Good luck :)

[Close102]

well how well do you know the girl you are "in love with". if she is just some girl that sits near you in History class that you dont really talk to other than to get the homework from the other night then how do you know that you actually love her. on the other hand, if you have been friends with her for years now and know her fairly well then i would say it is quite possible that you do love her. if it is more the second situation with her then i would say tell her that you want to talk to her alone sometime. when you are talking to her explain how you feel without coming off too strong and see what happens from their. if your relationship with her is more like the first or she tells you she just wants to be friends then there is always the other girl that you mentioned. but dont go out with the other girl just so you can be "going out with someone" do it because you actually want to be going out with her.

[Art_dude]

Yea, you're gonna need to give us a little more info about the girl you really love. I say go for it. What do you have to lose? However, if the chances really are slim, I say go for girl two. I know I'll get a lot of crap for saying it, but us teens live too often in fantasy world and don't learn to compromise. Try going out with this girl #2. If she really likes you and you like her, who knows how you'll feel after getting to know her. She could end up being the love of your life for all you know. Always give unsuspecting people a chance. I think you'll be surprised.

[RedTheViking]

The girl that i love is my best friends sister. :)
im over at there place at least 3 times a week , so i know her pretty well.
But the thing is as far as i know she has no interest whatsover in guys (shes not lesbian) shes just not ... for want of a better word ... mature. so she has no interest in anything to do with a relationship.
Imagine a 10 year old girl in a 15 year olds body ... mature wise i mean.
Thats the reason i have have very slim chance with her.

[Close102]

i'd say go for the second girl for three reasons.
1) you have a better chance with her as you have stated
2) If she is not mature enough to be interested in dating guys then she probably isn't mature enough for a real relationship.
3) if you do go out with the girl you "love" and things don't work out it might ruin you're relationship with her sister

[Kaius]

Tbh, If you have feelings for the second girl I can't see how you could love the other girl with all your heart. But honestly I would go with the girl you claim to love, because there's obviously a lot of feelings there, whereas with the second girl you feel its just a like. But after seeing that the girl is more mature and has no interest I would also say that you should try to get to know the second girl a little bit, just see how you click and take it from there.