Unsure of things

[green]

I have been going out with a girl for a couple of months. The problom is that when ever we hang out at the mall or somthin by ourselves were not as .… close. Like when were at school and stuff with her friends were more afecctionate than when were just watching a DVD at my house. I need some help with how to get her more intrested when were alone. I don't mean like getting her to make out ( I wish) just to get her and I to be closer

[pixie1234]

i think the best thing to ever do with things like this is discuss how you feel with her. it may be that she feels the same and she shy to talk to you about it. maybe if you talk to her you can resolve it? xx

[Close102]

i think the best thing to ever do with things like this is discuss how you feel with her.

i agree. she may think that you dont want to be close with her because men tend to generally be less emotional and caring ect. if you just talk to her about it you may find that she feels the same or at least find out why she isnt close with you when you are alone.

[lipstick_kisses23]

You can ask her to scootch a little closer and rest her head on you when youre watch a movie at your house. That usually gets couples closer whe they are at a disconnect. Hope you guys are happy for a long time =]

[magikarpy]

If she's more affectionate in public then when your alone then she doesn't really like you. Your her trophy. She's showing off to everyone that you're her boyfriend. Her prize. Her cover-up.

[green]

I don't think she views me as a prize because we've been friends for like a year. Things just seem to be awkward when were in private. Like at school we hug and that kind of thing but we never seem to have anything to talk about. She and a friend do argue about me cause her friend likes me aswell…so she might be flaunting it to the other girl.