ktmay96
April 12th, 2010, 10:57 PM
There is this guy I like, a lot. He is actually my best guy friend, I've known him since I was two, and we've been friends forever. I love him, just because we're so close, but I've started to develop quite the crush on him. :)
Anyway, I and the two of the three friends I've told, think he's been flirting with me lately. He is alway poking me and makes jokes a lot, but it only started a month or so ago. There was also one time when I was blocking his way to his seat, and so he comes up and tickles me to get me to move. That was the first and only time he'd done that, and it really caught me offguard. So, question #1: Do you think he's flirting, or its just the fact we're such good friends that he just acts this way? I always flirt back a bit, but I'm not really sure if he's actually flirting with me or likes me in that way at all. I got my friend to find out who he liked, and according to one of his friends, he still likes his ex. However, I still have a slight feeling he might like me, and is actually flirting with me. And, now, two of my friends told me that I should ask him out, or at least tell him I like him. I am afraid to because we're such good friends and it might mess things up, and make it awkward, for a short time at the least. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him as a friend, but I also really like him and want to know how he feels.
So, should I risk it?
Also, I am looking for a guys perspective, just wondering if one of your close girl friends told you they liked you, and you didn't like them like that back, would it make things awkward for you? Say the girl said that if you didn't like her, that she still wants to be friends because she values you as a friend, would that make things odd for a while, but would you feel it would be someone back to normal after a while? How would you feel about that situation?
Anyway, I and the two of the three friends I've told, think he's been flirting with me lately. He is alway poking me and makes jokes a lot, but it only started a month or so ago. There was also one time when I was blocking his way to his seat, and so he comes up and tickles me to get me to move. That was the first and only time he'd done that, and it really caught me offguard. So, question #1: Do you think he's flirting, or its just the fact we're such good friends that he just acts this way? I always flirt back a bit, but I'm not really sure if he's actually flirting with me or likes me in that way at all. I got my friend to find out who he liked, and according to one of his friends, he still likes his ex. However, I still have a slight feeling he might like me, and is actually flirting with me. And, now, two of my friends told me that I should ask him out, or at least tell him I like him. I am afraid to because we're such good friends and it might mess things up, and make it awkward, for a short time at the least. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him as a friend, but I also really like him and want to know how he feels.
So, should I risk it?
Also, I am looking for a guys perspective, just wondering if one of your close girl friends told you they liked you, and you didn't like them like that back, would it make things awkward for you? Say the girl said that if you didn't like her, that she still wants to be friends because she values you as a friend, would that make things odd for a while, but would you feel it would be someone back to normal after a while? How would you feel about that situation?