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Blazin
April 11th, 2010, 08:41 PM
Hey Virtual Teen members, I need some help. So before I state my question do note that I am still a virgin. So basically I feel I dont last long at all when masturbating, maybe like 30 sec. Im worried when I actually have sex with my girl friend for the first time its going to be terrible cause I wont last long at all. Any help? Will I last longer after the first time? How do I build up stamina?
Nickk XD
April 11th, 2010, 08:45 PM
Several factors come into play when you ejaculate.
Things like how stimulated you actually, the environment, and what exactly you're thinking about can drastically change the length of time you last.
Try one time without any stimulation (no porn, no lube, nothing) and see how long you last.
Odds are, you may actually ejaculate before you even begin sex with your girlfriend, like most people do the first time.
Blazin
April 11th, 2010, 08:47 PM
Well I was watching porn and had lotion when it took only 30 sec haha...Are there any ways to increase stamina?
all about me
April 12th, 2010, 12:21 AM
no ul do fine.
YourFriend
April 12th, 2010, 02:26 PM
Odds are, you may actually ejaculate before you even begin sex with your girlfriend, like most people do the first time.
I seriously doubt that... It took me quite a while to cum the first time.
On the topic, when having sex, it usually lasts longer than notmal masturbating. How long, i cannot answer.
Nickk XD
April 12th, 2010, 03:06 PM
That was what happened to you...NOT the majority of guys.
Sex usually is shorter than masturbating...in EVERYONE (except you, apparently) I've ever talked to.
I seriously doubt that... It took me quite a while to cum the first time.
On the topic, when having sex, it usually lasts longer than notmal masturbating. How long, i cannot answer.
Tiberius
April 12th, 2010, 08:09 PM
TS :arrow: P101
pontiacdriver
April 13th, 2010, 01:57 AM
Hey Virtual Teen members, I need some help. So before I state my question do note that I am still a virgin. So basically I feel I dont last long at all when masturbating, maybe like 30 sec. Im worried when I actually have sex with my girl friend for the first time its going to be terrible cause I wont last long at all. Any help? Will I last longer after the first time? How do I build up stamina?
Masturbating and sex are really quite different, and your quickness in ejaculating through masturbation will not happen when you have sex especially as you become experienced with it. First times with sex rarely, if ever, go by well, and most of the time folks do not last long their first time. Much like any type of activity it takes practice to get the hang of doing it, and sex is no different. The whole stamina thing just happens as you learn how to have sex and really get to know your partner. Just don't think that because you masturbate really fast that you will automatically do the same with sex.
While this is not the topic of your question, just make sure you are careful your first time having sex and that you and your girlfriend are both using protection. Only have sex when you both are ready, and don't feel you have to have sex to prove your masculinity. Sex is an expression of love and not like how an animal marks its territory. Just take things slow, and if your partner really cares about you, then she/he will work with you as it takes a while to really get to know each other's bodies.
YourFriend
April 14th, 2010, 07:34 PM
That was what happened to you...NOT the majority of guys.
Sex usually is shorter than masturbating...in EVERYONE (except you, apparently) I've ever talked to.
Sorry. It just seems highly improbable that you'll cum without any physical stimulation, no matter the situation.
Nickk XD
April 14th, 2010, 08:03 PM
Sorry, I was referring to physical sexual intercourse.
I stated that you would probably ejaculate extremely quick based on oral stimulation alone. JUST rubbing (through clothes) can cause an orgasm. Your body preps to ejaculate way before ever being touched...so just being mildly touched can cause you to ejaculate.
Sorry. It just seems highly improbable that you'll cum without any physical stimulation, no matter the situation.
Trackstar29
May 16th, 2010, 02:21 PM
well of cource you prolly will because it will be your 1st time, but as u continue to have sex youll longer and get better
Obscene Eyedeas
May 16th, 2010, 02:24 PM
:locked: please do not bump old threads
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