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puber1312
April 11th, 2010, 08:15 PM
I've been j/o for 2 years and my dad and my step mom have no idea that i do it and i look at porn. How should i address it to them?
Silent
April 11th, 2010, 08:35 PM
There is no need to enless you think there is.
GeneralCrash70
April 11th, 2010, 08:40 PM
Don't tell them about the porn if you want to stay alive... As for the beatin part, be my guest, if you feel the need to go for it
Nickk XD
April 11th, 2010, 09:16 PM
Why do you need to address it to them? Is it necessary.
Your father and probably even your mother most likely already know you do it...because every guy at some point does it.
ekul6159
April 11th, 2010, 09:24 PM
I would assume that they would already assume that you do, most parents would. You're a teenager, and well... teenagers do that!
I don't think that you really need to tell them. If they want to know something they'll make the first move and ask you.
salamandr
April 11th, 2010, 09:35 PM
yah i haven't told my parents anything, they probably assume i do tho. And i clear the caches and all that so they wouldn't have an idea. :)
justin26
April 11th, 2010, 09:46 PM
why would u want to tell them...there is no need to tell them
pontiacdriver
April 11th, 2010, 11:17 PM
I've been j/o for 2 years and my dad and my step mom have no idea that i do it and i look at porn. How should i address it to them?
Personally, I would not tell your parents about your masturbating or looking at porn unless you have puberty questions. If you do have puberty questions or issues with sexuality, then you definitely should approach them about your issues. All you have to say is, "Dad, I have questions about puberty," and he will take it from there. It is a parent's responsibility to talk to you about puberty and changes, and there really should be no shame in it anymore than when they potty trained you.
As for porn, if you accidentally brought a virus or malware onto your machine or that of your family's, then you have to be honest and fast especially if your family does financial transactions on the machine. The reality is that your father probably looked at porn at your age, and I seriously doubt you will get in trouble. You will just have a man-to-man talk discussing changes.
Kitty Purry
April 11th, 2010, 11:35 PM
Most teenager would NEVER!!! Want their parents to know they masturbate, but if you do idk how you would tell them, cause personally I have no desire to tell my parents lol :P ohhh and about the porn, I wouldn't tell your parents about that cause they would proabably get mad at you, like most parents would :P . Hope I helped.
HankHand
April 16th, 2010, 12:31 AM
man im sure they know you do it..i mean ur dad was your age once, he did it im sure. i wouldn't bring it up personally, if they needed to talk to you about it, im sure they would know what to say
relapse
April 16th, 2010, 06:17 AM
dont
CantBeTamed
April 16th, 2010, 08:13 AM
Well since you are a teen i'm sure the assume you do. There is really no point in telling them. It would just be awkward. J/W why would you wanna tell em?
obiwan94
April 16th, 2010, 09:00 AM
Most teenager would NEVER!!! Want their parents to know they masturbate, but if you do idk how you would tell them, cause personally I have no desire to tell my parents lol :P ohhh and about the porn, I wouldn't tell your parents about that cause they would proabably get mad at you, like most parents would :P . Hope I helped.
would have to agree...most parents assume any teenager masturbates so dont really need to tell them and with the porn, definitely wouldn't tell
EvEnFloW
April 16th, 2010, 12:29 PM
Unless something comes up that dictates that you tell them(ie being caught), just leave it alone - im sure they probably assume that you do anyways
biscuit
April 16th, 2010, 05:07 PM
The real question is, why would you tell them? Unless they bring it up, I say leave it be. It's your life. Not theirs. Go on with what you are doing. You can keep jacking off and porn your own little secret amongst your family lol.
jawohl
April 16th, 2010, 05:10 PM
Don't tell them, it might be a bit awkward...
joshm
April 16th, 2010, 05:32 PM
I have no need to tell them, I think that the topic should be avoided by parents.
jake07
April 16th, 2010, 07:07 PM
Masturbation is a private thing. Im sure your parents have no desire to know that its something u do with your free time. What if ur parents came up to you and started telling you things they do? Is that something you want to know? I doubt it. Well they feel the same way. Just keep it private unless there is a medical reason involving your masturbating that you need to address them about.
nick
April 16th, 2010, 07:12 PM
You might as well tell them that you breath, you're a teen aged boy, of course you wank, they know that and dont need to be told. Just treat it as a private thing. It would be like them trying to tell you about their sex life.
Jacob1993
April 16th, 2010, 07:25 PM
I've been j/o for 2 years and my dad and my step mom have no idea that i do it and i look at porn. How should i address it to them?
I personally dont know why you would want to tell them that you j/o and look at porn. Most parents of teenage boys probably know that most teen boys do, but I dont think you want to talk with them about it---me personally, I would never do that.
JoV1
April 16th, 2010, 07:29 PM
Well I found some porn on my dads comp when I was ten, and I started looking it up. My dad found out and gave me the sex talk. I did it again when I was eleven cuz he loves to use my iPod and now I have been doing it for the past two years and he hasn't caught on yet. :) I clear my history, my cache and all the searches I use. I feel no need to tell him cuz he doesnt really yell at me he just sorta... well... I don't really remember. But I know he watches it because I was talking with him and I saw him looking at Porn so I got up and walked around the table... :P And about the masturbation, I KNOW that my dad does it (I found his lube :P) plus I am pretty sure my parents know and nothing has changed between us. And also, not just your dad has done it, lots of girls do it too. They will understand if you REALLY REALLY need to tell them.
Trackstar29
May 16th, 2010, 01:52 PM
why would u talk to them about it? They prolly know ur doing it but just dont bring it up
con_RAD_
May 16th, 2010, 09:25 PM
I've been j/o for 2 years and my dad and my step mom have no idea that i do it and i look at porn. How should i address it to them?i dont think i would tell them. they probably dont want to know!
coopie.mac94
May 17th, 2010, 07:27 AM
Don't tell them about the porn if you want to stay alive... As for the beatin part, be my guest, if you feel the need to go for it
^^Ditto^^
dantheman5000
May 17th, 2010, 09:13 AM
Dont!!!!
luconfu
May 17th, 2010, 10:23 PM
I really don't see the need to tell them, but if you do feel the need to talk about it - i would do it with your dad... he will probably be more understanding than your mom
volcomdude
May 17th, 2010, 11:02 PM
whoaaaa i would not tell them if i were you
sooocrazzzy
May 27th, 2010, 06:29 PM
you dont need to
cokeboy
May 28th, 2010, 02:49 AM
well im sure ur parents know ur masturbating after all they were
teens once and did the same thing, in fact they prob still do.
i dont see any reason to tell them that u do or that u watch porn
they know ur a teenage boy and most likely suspect u do both.
YourFriend
May 28th, 2010, 03:24 PM
There is no need for telling something like that to your parents. They already know, anyway.
joestephan
May 31st, 2010, 02:51 PM
why is it neccessary to adress it to them anyways, it is a personal thing, and completely normal
puber1312
June 13th, 2010, 12:23 PM
SHould i just be like can i have private time from 4-5 and you respect that you DO NOT COME IN during that time
kyle92
June 13th, 2010, 12:30 PM
honestly its non of there buisness they dont realy need to know
Astor
June 13th, 2010, 09:03 PM
Simple: I wouldn't!
Zackk
June 13th, 2010, 10:16 PM
They know dood. dont worry about it
spw184
June 13th, 2010, 10:22 PM
um eew dont
jimmycouch14
June 13th, 2010, 10:23 PM
If you want to keep your computer don’t tell them about the porn. If it bothers you looking at it try to stop.
As far as the j/o. it’s kind of like this, your parents don’t tell you they are having sex so why would you tell them you wank. It a private thing.
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