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wolfbird_94
April 11th, 2010, 09:30 AM
Yesterday was my sisters 14th BirthDay so we had Family Friends over so my siste asked her Friends what their brother likes her or not. and He said "She would have to loose weight for him to Be interested!!!! :(:mad: I'm so mad that My Friend would say something like that About my Sister and His Sisters Saying it to my sister..... Thats Wrong!

What should Happen? If he said that in public school about a Girl, He would have is @$$ kicked in..... am I right?

Fruit_Tart.
April 11th, 2010, 11:12 AM
Well... if you don think that he was nice about it i think you should talk to him about choosing his words right next time... if you really want to go as far as fighting with on another i suggest you not becuz its jus words... but yes i know words do hurt but fighting is not the answer. jus sit him down eye to eye and tell him/her wat you think and tell him that you dont want it to happen again...

wolfbird_94
April 11th, 2010, 11:27 AM
Thanks, I Think My sister Being hurt like this will stay with me forever. I would say that His parents are not the Real Teaching Part. Parents Help Put Filters on, But His Parents haven't. Thanks

Fruit_Tart.
April 11th, 2010, 12:17 PM
your welcome... jus try to make the best out of it... try not to ruin your friendship, but if you think its the best jus try not to hurt anyone involved...

INFERNO
April 11th, 2010, 03:24 PM
Sorry but I don't see anything wrong with it. She asked for an opinion and she got one plus the reason why. It may be a shallow reason focusing on her looks but if one does not want to hear something negative when they ask for an opinion, then one may not want to ask. Are you angry simply because it's regarding your sister and wouldn't have much of a problem if it was toward a girl you didn't know?

Tankinx91
April 15th, 2010, 07:25 PM
Sorry but I don't see anything wrong with it. She asked for an opinion and she got one plus the reason why. It may be a shallow reason focusing on her looks but if one does not want to hear something negative when they ask for an opinion, then one may not want to ask. Are you angry simply because it's regarding your sister and wouldn't have much of a problem if it was toward a girl you didn't know?

I'm gonna have to agree. You may feel bad because it's your sister, but love starts with a physical attraction to a person. It's not like they said she's a fat slob and needs to go on weight watchers. Just try to be there for your sister and make her feel better.

AUS-MAK
April 16th, 2010, 03:50 AM
looks arent everything tho

Tankinx91
April 16th, 2010, 07:51 PM
looks arent everything tho

No they're not, but looks are what spark the inital attraction between two people. Let's face it, no matter how much you really like a person if you're not physically attracted to them you're probably not going to go out with them are you?