My best friend's girlfriend hates me

[Snake217]

IDK why, but she hates me, and i havent done anything wrong to her, on the contrary, Ive allways tried to be nice with her, but evertime shes around, she attacks and insults me.

That gets my best friend into trouble, because he doesnt want to take sides, and just goes away, but im sure he know that shes the wrong one, but he loves her, so he doesnt stop her.

Im afraid this could separate him from me, that would kill me, hes more than a brother to me. Maybe thats the problem, is she jealous?

[Aspiringanonymous]

Yes, she could possibly be jealous - but regardless, the point is that she dislikes you, and there isn't much you can do to change that.

Why don't you sit down and have an honest talk about this with your friend? Tell him what you told us; that you do not wish to become distanced from such a good friend - for the sake of his happiness as well as your own. Then just take it easy, for you've done what you can.

It is by no means simple to accept, but friends drifting away from one another is a fact of life. At the end of the day, if he chooses to sacrifice your friendship for the other person, the best thing you can do is be a good friend to the end, and respect his decision. Take care to avoid appearing clingy, for it is more likely to drive him away rather than gain his sympathy.

Good luck with everything.

[pixie1234]

i think you should talk to both of them, let your friend know that you feel that this could drift you apart and tell her that you dont want to be always arguing and for your friends sake could she stop. i know that i would do pretty much anything to refrain from hurting my bf so maybe she is the same? good luck and i hope this gets sorted out (y) xx