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[Anarchy]

i have never "made out" with a girl:oops:.....my question is how? how do u "make out"?

(not just shove my tongue down her throat)

[Trademarked]

well, i wouldnt know with a girl, because im gay, but... i dont know, ive only made out with two people, and my old girlfriend said i was pretty bad. soo...

[LIsailer19]

i've never made out with a girl either :(

i think "making out" would come natrually though, almost like common sense. i really cant wait for that though. if you look back through the relationships fourm i think there is a thread posted arount the beginning of May that has tons of advice on kissing. i'll post the URL of the thread http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=5593. Well good luck and welcome to virtual teen :D

[skier44]

well ive madeout with a lot of girls a lot of time....but its just one of those things thats hard to describe...look at that post that LIsailer19 linked.

[Activate]

Well from what i've heared people with lisps (Me!) are the best kissers. Hehe...

[Anarchy]

all i really need to know is if u like umm......like open then close open close ur mouth,or u like just keep it open? :confused: well the main thing is wut do i do w/ my lips?

[BP_Saladin]

It's not too hard. It's best if you vary the intesity; it keeps it more fun longer.

I also like to sometimes gently bite through my lips onto her tounge as she's pulling it out of my mouth. It's usually well met.

Basically it's all about going with the flow. Not every gal is gonna be comfortable with everything, so be responsive.

[Glasgow]

I find making out to be pointless really, like who wants to share their saliva with someone that isn't even your own blood?? I just find a long kiss to be very nice, and lol i havent made out with a girl yet either, although i have a girlfriend, i told her i just dont make out and she respects that.. Maybe im just too scared, but i wouldn rather just not do it. But i think you go mouth open closed, pull out a tiny bit and go open again.. I dunno lol

[Hot Fudge]

First just kiss her on the lips, no tounges or anything, you know go slow, it makes them relax and enjoy it more, also its a way of finding out if thats what they want.
Second pull away gently look in to her eyes and open your mouth (but not in a goofy way)lol then you will tell from her reaction if thats what she wants.
Thirdly go for it put your lips o hers, tounge in, then do what feels right, if she is experienced she will subtly show you, while you are doing it, just follow her lead. If she is inexperienced then she will be just as nervy as you are but she will feel comfortable if you follow step 1and2 and things will come naturally.

Little tip tho, make sure her parents cant see when you're making out, thats the mistake i made. We where in her hot tub conoodling and kissing and her parents saw us through the window and she was teased about it for weeks.

[mRojas2000]

Ive never made out eather... ive had lots of relationships, but ive never made out/kissed someone in their mouth... i cant wait till the one day comes... i really want to do it with someone i trully love!!

[Hot Fudge]

Ive never made out eather... ive had lots of relationships, but ive never made out/kissed someone in their mouth... i cant wait till the one day comes... i really want to do it with someone i trully love!!
I completly agree with mrojas2000, i wouldnt be in any rush to do anything, i am with a girl and i love her with all my heart and i feel it is right when i am kissing her, as she does with me but she did not kiss the guy who she was with before me because she never loved him, she knew he was just a crush.

Make sure your first kiss is special because that moment will always be with you. Mine could have been in a better context but i know it was with the right person.

Good luck anyways

[Glasgow]

EDIT - Since yesterday i have now made out 6 times.. LMFAO!

And yea, first start off with just a normal kiss, then after a while she will be ready for a make out, and you can stick your tongue in her mouth sometimes, fiddle around with her tongue, and just remember to open and close the mouth.

[Elscire]

EDIT - Since yesterday i have now made out 6 times.. LMFAO!

And yea, first start off with just a normal kiss, then after a while she will be ready for a make out, and you can stick your tongue in her mouth sometimes, fiddle around with her tongue, and just remember to open and close the mouth.
Lucky... just make sure to bring a cndom with you the next time you guys make out again! goodluck paul

[Rooster]

I always jest kinda go in with my lips sorta loose. Then, when I make contact I open slightly, and slip it in. While in the promised land, I like to explore this wonderous place (don't like try steal her ubula with your tongue lol). Just kinda make contact with her tongue and move anyway you like (as I do it, the way she likes). Then, when you are very comfortable with this, and your partner, you can cop a feel or go for 2nd.

[mr_smite1]

good advice rooster, but better yet, just do what you feel is right ;)

[xTheLordsServantx]

yea trust me, take ur time and dont just make out with anyone. in seventh grade, i was at this party and this one girl really liked me, but i didnt like her that much. we rushed to a back room and made out, but it wasnt enjoyable cus i didnt like her, although she was hot. But yea...dont just stick ur tongue down anyone's throat. lol

[Rooster]

Ya, I've only made out with this one chick. Who I was with for a year. I got pretty good... It's like a sport, practise makes perfect. But, don't just play any field you can find if you catch my drift.

[mRojas2000]

guys dont rush it... i mean, that moment will last in you/for you forever... there ill be no next time (hmm this makes me think about my fav movie... 50 first dates, awsome movie!!)... its like having your lips virgin... you wont forget when you first did/will do sex, will ya?? so just dont rush it, do it with someone you really really like... my best girl friend (shes a friend girl, not my gf) told me she has kissed like 50000000000000000 times, but she told me that she will never forget her first kiss, and then starts to explain me how it feels and stuff, but i dont really remember... so just wait the perfect moment, the perfect time... you know?? my dream is having my first kiss at a beach with the sunset, all alone... im surelly it wont be like that, but just make the moment perfect-er than it is, if its not... dont rush it...

Miguel :)

[LIsailer19]

guys dont rush it... i mean, that moment will last in you/for you forever... there ill be no next time (hmm this makes me think about my fav movie... 50 first dates, awsome movie!!)... its like having your lips virgin... you wont forget when you first did/will do sex, will ya?? so just dont rush it, do it with someone you really really like... my best girl friend (shes a friend girl, not my gf) told me she has kissed like 50000000000000000 times, but she told me that she will never forget her first kiss, and then starts to explain me how it feels and stuff, but i dont really remember... so just wait the perfect moment, the perfect time... you know?? my dream is having my first kiss at a beach with the sunset, all alone... im surelly it wont be like that, but just make the moment perfect-er than it is, if its not... dont rush it...

Miguel :)

i love 50 first dates too!

i agree, a first kiss shouldnt be rushed. my dream one is to be sailing with the girl i like during a sunset, and the boat flips, and while we are floating in the water, alone, well you get the idea... i just fantasize about that everyday (i know i need to get a life, lol :rolleyes:). But yea i agree, as said in 50 first dates, "theres nothing like a first kiss."

[mRojas2000]

my dream one is to be sailing...

lol qft!

[mr_smite1]

I remember my 1st kiss, twas gr8, hope she will come bak 2 me...

[fdsgfg55465]

well it just comes to you

[mr_smite1]

The thing about "making out" is tht sometimes it can be dissapointing, if the mood isnt right, or you both feel uncomfortable, it can provide a rather anti climatic experience

[nullandvoid123]

I haven't had my first kiss yet, and I'm not really in any hurry. I want to have it with someone I really care about.