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Arantor
April 10th, 2010, 12:15 AM
Well, There's this girl who I really like, we hang out pretty often, talk in school, text, ect.

Anyway, I've grown to really like her, but-she has a boyfriend.
Sometimes it seems like she's with me more than him, and when she is, she doesn't seem to like him all that much.

Also, before anyone says anything about the boyfriend doing something, he can't ;) haha

anyways, I guess my question is, well, what should I do?

Fruit_Tart.
April 10th, 2010, 12:19 AM
i think you should honestly jus wait more until SHE does something... its her relationship not yours. if she asks you to do something about her boyfriend or something that will end them then you can but only if SHE asks... you can't ruin her relationship UNLESS SHE wants you to... but otherwise jus hang low and jus wait on her dude... sorry but thats my advice on this subject...

Arantor
April 10th, 2010, 12:22 AM
i think you should honestly jus wait more until SHE does something... its her relationship not yours. if she asks you to do something about her boyfriend or something that will end them then you can but only if SHE asks... you can't ruin her relationship UNLESS SHE wants you to... but otherwise jus hang low and jus wait on her dude... sorry but thats my advice on this subject...

Dude..That made perfect sense, I never really thought of it that way, but it makes sense.
Finally someone that'd be straight up!
Thanks!

Fruit_Tart.
April 10th, 2010, 12:32 AM
hehehe... your welcome ^_^ good luck bro!!!

magikarpy
April 10th, 2010, 01:04 PM
Make your intentions known to her. Tell her that you like her a lot but shes taken and you're going to respect that. Not only will she be impressed that you had the balls to say it but she'll also gain respect that you won't breach that line. Then when she's with her boyfriend she's going to be comparing the two of you. She'll either stay with him or break up with him.

If she stays with him don't see this as defeat but don't mention the you liking her thing again. Simply be the best friend you can be. I've found it's better to have someone you love as a friend then not in your life at all.

Arantor
April 12th, 2010, 02:56 PM
Well I just followed you're advice and told her that, magikarp, so I guess we'll see where this goes.

Arantor
April 14th, 2010, 09:24 PM
Also, before I read karps post, I was going to try and "get over her" , so I didn't talk to her as much.

Then, I got text from her, stating we hadn't talked as much as we usually do lately,
Does this mean something? The fact that she noticed I wasn't there?