bleeding

[Paladino]

Tonight I had sex with my girlfriend and I was a virgin and after it my penis was bleeding, is this ment to happen Im really worried about it :confused:

[Silent]

I personally have never heard of that from a guy but a girl yes.

[Kaius]

Not trying to sound stupid, but are you sure it was your blood? If it was, was it coming from inside or outside the penis?

[Paladino]

It was definetly my own blood she checked and everything and Im not sure if it was coming from the out or in :confused:

[Kaius]

If you're sure its your blood, you need to get that checked. Best not take any chances with genitalia, you can never really be too sure what it is. It can be anything from a small tear to an infection, but I wouldn't leave it up to us to decide, get yourself to a doctor.

[Huskyboy132]

I once masturbated to hard and it pulled the skin between the Head and the bottom. There's a vein there so you might have pulled it too since its easy to overstretch if you weren't using lube.

[Paladino]

I really dont want to go to a doctor, should I be worried, I dont want to go to a doctor because then I need to talk to my Mum about it and I really dont want to.

[Kaius]

You don't have to, you can book an appointment yourself as your 15, they wouldn't be able to break that confidentiality and tell her afterwards either. I wouldn't leave it to chance. Look over yourself and see if there's anything that's been likely to cause it. a tear, as Nils said, a vein. If there is nothing I'd either get yourself to a doctor or see how you go.

[Paladino]

Im thinking about leaving it overnight and going in for a bath tomorrow and if it isnt better by Monday Ill go to the doctors.

[Kaius]

Good plan, hope it gets better soon

[Paladino]

But Im not sure if I should worry or not thats what Im worrying about.

[YourFriend]

I really dont want to go to a doctor, should I be worried, I dont want to go to a doctor because then I need to talk to my Mum about it and I really dont want to.

Doctor patient confidentiality? If you ask your doctor not to, he wont tell anyone. It's his obligation.

[Paladino]

Yeah but I dont want the hassle becaue Ive no way to get to get to the doctors without my mum driving me and then she knows I need to go for something and she'll be asking me and Ill have to tell her.

[PuppetPrince]

Umm it could be the frenulum, the piece of skin between the head and skin. If it's just a tear then yeah , i think you will be fine. You shouldn't need to worry. Just keep it clean too prevent infection. Plus i have heard guys having after effects on blood from the guys side. And its the frenulum. xD Anymore to ask ?

[bassdraco]

Yeah but I dont want the hassle becaue Ive no way to get to get to the doctors without my mum driving me and then she knows I need to go for something and she'll be asking me and Ill have to tell her.

could u not take a bus in? or even get the underground in ?

[nottelling]

you should go to an emergency room but anyways in the USA there is this law called HIPPA that says if your under the age of 18 and your mom or dad asks what it was about then the doctor has to tell them i mean you can ask your doctor not to tell them but if your parents ask them directly then they have to tell them by law but that is the law in the USA but you live in Glagow (i think thats in england LOL) and i do not know what the law is there

[bassdraco]

you live in Glagow (i think thats in england LOL)

how can u not know that glasgow is in scotland D: shame on u:P

[marc_shawn]

r u uncut? maybe u tore the foreskin a lil? it happends when its too tight

[BMILLER]

it all depends where u were bleeding from and if it look like a tear or a slice. like marc shawn said if u are uncut there is a possibility of u tearing it while in the process

[pontiacdriver]

Yeah but I dont want the hassle becaue Ive no way to get to get to the doctors without my mum driving me and then she knows I need to go for something and she'll be asking me and Ill have to tell her.

Your situation is a hard one, but when it is all said and done your health is what is most important. Especially when it comes to your private parts you do not want to mess around with them. If you are positive the blood is from you and not from your girlfriend, then you have no choice but to be checked out.

As for how to deal with your Mum, what you can do is say that you have a really bad itch down there and that you want to see a doctor about it. Also, you can say that it hurts when you urinate as that generally will get your parents to take you to the doctor. You can also say that you have pain down there or say that you hurt your testicles really bad to get your foot into the doctor's office. Chances are if your Mum wants grandchildren, then she will definitely get you checked out if you mention testicular problems.

Once you get into the doctor's office, then you will be alone with the doctor. At that point you need to be completely honest about your sexual activity. Also, try to learn about safe sex and how to protect yourself. You might also want to talk to your doctor about how to eventually tell your parents that you are sexually active.


You can take it or leave it, but your Mum is eventually going to figure out that you are sexually active. If your Mum really has a problem with your having sex, then you have to respect her wishes especially if she is paying for all of your expenses. Remember, she is ultimately responsible for you, and she probably doesn't want to have grandchildren before you are ready. With that being said you both need to have an honest relationship, too. Sex talks with parents is super awkward, but it is just one of those things one has to do especially in your case if you are going to be sexually active and will need periodic STD tests.

[nick]

Its probably just a little tear that will repair itself, like Nils said its possible to get those from wanking too hard. I would leave it a day or two, stay off the wanking, and see if it clears up.

[rlb3810]

Go to the doctors. The hippa laws will protect you anf by law your doctor can not tell your mother unless you want the too.

[Obscene Eyedeas]

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