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laugh-to-live
April 7th, 2010, 10:17 PM
How do you tell if a guy likes you? I am confused and lost and I have no idea how to tell........
girls-how do you tell if a guy likes you?
guys-how do you act around the girl you like? how do most guys you know commonly act?
please help.
im just slightly lost and confused

firesoul73
April 7th, 2010, 10:48 PM
when around a girl i like i usually blush alot but that's just me i talk to them alot i laugh with them i make sure their not alone i ask if there ok when they look sad i pretty much do wat they want umm i am more talkative near them(well it depends) ya alot of us do things for them we wouldn't normally do for others

Skeletal-Chic
April 8th, 2010, 03:25 AM
I tend to go out of my way to talk to the girl I have a crush on and I tend to laugh a lot at her jokes (even if they aren't that great lol) Ummm, I tend to look at her probably longer than I should and try and over-compensate with doing something else when caught :P

Hope that Helped :)

Arantor
April 8th, 2010, 05:18 PM
When I like a girl, I talk to them alot, I'll go out of my way "bump into them" in the hallway at school, I also compliment them alot.

But, as you can tell by reading all the previous posts, mostly all guy's to different things.

Nicinoz
April 11th, 2010, 05:24 AM
Well, I usually tend to talk to them at every opportunity I can.

Hollywood
April 11th, 2010, 07:35 AM
Well, for me, if I like a girl and I'm friends with her as well, I will hang out with her and talk to her more than others. However, if I don't really know her, I kind of shy away. Then again, I am naturally shy.

HellHound
April 11th, 2010, 04:49 PM
Well i usually dont look her in the eyes if were not close.I start saying stupid stuff,i stand tall,stretch and blush sometime s.But thats me.:rolleyes:

Art_dude
April 11th, 2010, 05:43 PM
"How do you tell if a guy likes you?" ---- you ask him. You can try cross analyzing the shit out of his body language and nuanced facial expressions but it's a waste of time. Trust me - if he likes you, you'll know. Just muster up the courage to ask. Or you can always do the middle school thing and have a friend ask him for you (not really recommended tho)

"how do you act around the girl you like? how do most guys you know commonly act?"

Luckily, I was raised in a house of women, so I am very comfortable around them and don't get nervous as may be common with some. As for a girl I like, I'm not sure. I've never really observed myself. I try to be my self, but if I'm trying to make an effort to make my intentions known, I'll obviously flirt with her, maybe make some body contact (when appropriate) etc etc. How do most guys act? uhhh like douches lol. Most guys I see act either a little arrogant, or little nervous when around girls they like. I find it generally falls into either of those two categories: its interesting to see how different people react to such scenarios.

Close102
April 11th, 2010, 09:00 PM
if i like a girl i try to spend as much time around her as possible. i might try and tease her a bit or take interest in her intrests. if she comes up to me when im with my friend(s) i'll usualy ignore everyone but her pretty much. some common signs:
more talkative than usual/goes out of his way to see you/asks about your interests/asks you wat your doing this weekend (pretty much testing the grounds to ask you out, say "why do you ask" if you want him to)
pretty much common sense stuff

INFERNO
April 12th, 2010, 02:08 PM
If I like a certain girl and if she's fine with it, then we'll flirt for however long and act kind of silly towards certain subjects. For example, if we're studying for, say cognitive psychology, we'll put innuendo or flirty spins onto certain things. If it's a girl who I'm just meeting, then some of the same stuff as in the above sentences but I'll also try to see how much she focuses on her superficial looks. One could say most girls care but it varies as to how much, so if I think they're good-looking but they're open to conversation just not a fan of compliments, then I'll do a few compliments then move on. In addition, I try to reduce the distance between us, so anything from buying her lunch to carrying things for her, basically trying to not put up a mask of who I'm usually not as well as being polite and if she's fine with it, a bit flirty. Fake laughs and saying she looks good over and over gets dry so it's easily noticable for her that I'm being who I'm not, which many girls don't tend to care for.

ILOVEYOU
April 12th, 2010, 03:57 PM
1st: Eye Contact -2nd: Smiles -3rd: Sweet Talk/Compliment