Asking Out a Girl: what should I say?

[PowerShift]

Asking a girl on a date has always been a really big weakness of mine. I just can't do it. I'm too afraid that I'm going to mess up, and if I do go through with it, what do I tell my parents? (they're so embarrassing)
I would like mostly girls to answer my first question. As for the whole parents thing, everyone can help me on that one, i need all the hp I can get (LOLz)!
One more thing. I would like you guys to post your stories of tragic moments when you finally got the guts to ask that special someone on a date. Tell me stories oF when the conversation with your parents went horribly wrong and turned into an epic fail...

[deletemeandmypostplz]

sorry, i'm no girl tho often mistaken for one. Juat be yourself and talk to her. be unique, instead of following the usual script of asking and answering questions, tell storries with your answers and give your answer 50% first after you,ve asked the question. offer to buy her lunch. get to know her friends as their approval is key. dont use any profanity or inappropriat language in front of her as this will ruin her impression of you.

[Harley Quinn]

Moving: P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating


Take a deep breath, you don't actually have to tell your parents anything, it's not really any of their buisnees knowing if you have a girlfriend or not, you tell them when you're ready, but then again they might find out anyways if your all loved up. If they do then just explain that you met a girl and that you like her ect ect. Or deny the whole thing and run :P

As for asking a girl out, build up your confidence, look at yourself in the mirror each morning and say "I will be confident". Each day you will get confident. There's no really way to ask a girl out right, you just have to you your own mind and common sense. If you look at the sticky on the main 'Relationships and Dating' forum, there is advice and tips on how to ask someone out. Asking someone out takes confidence. If you have it, it'll be easier.


I do have a story of when I asked a girl out in school, but it's long, I'll write out later, was like in year 9 last year.

[Sapphire]

Honestly, just go up to her and say "Would you like to go out to *insert place/activity here* with me next weekend?"
If your hands are sweating and you're incredibly nervous then all the more reason to just push yourself to ask her, IMO.

You don't have to tell your parents that you are planning to or that you have asked her out. Obviously, you need to make sure it's ok with them if you go out and let them know where but you don't need to tell them why you're going out.
If you do want to tell them (and IMO it is best if you do) then just say that you've met a girl you like and that you asked her out.

This stuff can seem intimidating but it's not exactly rocket science.

[magikarpy]

Be casual. It helps if you're already a friend of theres don't ask out random girls!!
Practice in the mirror, try not to be nervous. Girls can pick up on that and most prefer there guy to be confident.

Simply walk up, mention an event you'll be attending or an activity you'll be doing and asks if she wants to come with you. (dinner for two's aren't very good first dates IMO. They can be pretty awkward.

[Arantor]

Alot of times, someone will want to ask a girl out, but then they get too shy, so they ask on of the girls friends to ask for them..Don't! She'll just see you as weak.

Go up to her, stand straight, breathe, and say "Would you like to go out with me?"

As for your parents, like it was already said, it's really none of their buisness. But they tend to have a way of finding things out, and if they do, don't worry about it. It's a natural occurance, they can't change that.

[magikarpy]

Go up to her, stand straight, breathe, and say "Would you like to go out with me?"

NO!! "Would you out with me?" That's just frickin weird. She wants a fun-loving guy most likely and she wants you to invite her along to something that sounds fun. "Would you go out with me?" will creep her out.

[relapse]

NO!! "Would you out with me?" That's just frickin weird. She wants a fun-loving guy most likely and she wants you to invite her along to something that sounds fun. "Would you go out with me?" will creep her out.

yep, dont use chat up lines either, just say what you feel comfy with, but dont keep a straight face, smile...

if she sez no then try and be calm and not take it too badly