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vballboy
April 6th, 2010, 03:22 PM
Couple of my buddies and I were talking about this today.....do you guys consider watching porn etc. or thinking about other girls/guys as cheating on anyone you are dating.

personally, i dont there is anything wrong with it

...i think actual texting, phone calls, physical things with someone else is either cheating or crossing the line but I'm sure there are a lot of boys out their who might feel guilty about stuff like that...

what do u guys think? :confused:

Huskyboy132
April 6th, 2010, 03:27 PM
Nah. Watching people have sex is a whole different story than actually doing it.

SAMwich
April 6th, 2010, 03:29 PM
I don't think watching porn really counts as cheating on someone, some girls even enjoy to watch it with their partners.

mattvt94
April 6th, 2010, 03:39 PM
the christian church considers it cheatin but i am christian and i disagree i think it the act of doin

that kid
April 6th, 2010, 03:48 PM
No like the other guys said it's only cheating if you do something with someone else

OhMightyLion
April 6th, 2010, 03:50 PM
I don't think so, but that's just my opinion ;)

Voodoo
April 6th, 2010, 04:03 PM
No, it's not cheating exactly, cheating is when you have other feelings for other people and do things with them, porn is different it's for your pleasures

YourFriend
April 6th, 2010, 04:10 PM
I don't think it's cheating. I think it's cheating if you do something like kissing or something sexual with someone in person, or flirt with someone, in person or otherwise.

CaluM.
April 6th, 2010, 04:36 PM
Watching porn is not interacting with anyone else so its ok :)

PuppetPrince
April 6th, 2010, 06:06 PM
Oh hell naw. xD
I seriously believe with a strong fist in the air , that it wouldn't be considered cheating. I mean i have no feelings for the person through the screen what so ever, nor am i having any communication. I can literally just 'turn her off' or get rid of her. xD lol.

Marcie
April 6th, 2010, 06:07 PM
I think it should be considered cheating. You are staring at another girl naked. You are infatuating your self with that other girl and not the one you are dating.

and it appears that I'm the only one who feels that way..

Kaius
April 6th, 2010, 06:16 PM
It feels like it is to me, I don't really see the fascination with it. Just my opinion

JustANaverageGUY
April 6th, 2010, 07:18 PM
I think no but your partner may think otherwise. and a good relationship is one where both partners respect each other. find out what your partner thinks

pontiacdriver
April 6th, 2010, 10:42 PM
I do not think looking at porn is cheating for the simple fact that you are just looking at an image and nothing more. I mean if someone thinks that looking at porn is cheating, then wouldn't masturbating in general be cheating especially if you are not thinking about your girlfriend/boyfriend? Personally, I think anyone in a relationship who would get mad at the partner looking at porn is way too controlling which is not healthy. As long as the other person is not actually doing stuff with another person including sexting or things like that, then looking at porn is fine.

Freshprince
April 6th, 2010, 11:14 PM
Nah thats deff not cheating

ray8806
April 6th, 2010, 11:57 PM
I don't. I mean, Cheating on someone, in my opinion, is an actual relationship with someone else while in a relationship with yet another person. That or having sex with someone else while in a relationship with a different person.

With porn, you can't have a relationship with one of the actor/actresses, nor can you have sex with them(though we would like to). LOL

curiousboy014
April 7th, 2010, 12:01 AM
I do not think that watching porn is cheating. It is technically committing adultery. It is considered Adultery when you lust after another, while you are with someone. So, since you are watching porn you are thinking sexual thoughts about them.

Kitty Purry
April 7th, 2010, 12:35 AM
Well me personally think that watching porn is somewhat cheating. When. I'm in a relationship I have NO desire for that kind of stuff. And really you have to think would you want the other person in the relationship looking at porn? I know i wouldn't . That's just my opinion though :D

ModernWarfare
April 7th, 2010, 08:00 AM
Sitting there and watching someone cum on another guy/girl is different than you actually cumming on them.

itsbhuddatime07
April 7th, 2010, 10:11 AM
Not at all!!!

josh93
April 7th, 2010, 11:10 AM
No it aint cheating unless you are haveing sex with another person than yeah that would be cheating.

Marcie
April 8th, 2010, 04:56 PM
For some reason I'm not surprised that no one is agreeing with me..

CarnivorousBat
April 8th, 2010, 04:58 PM
not at all

Silent
April 8th, 2010, 05:03 PM
I dont think it is.

Zackk
April 8th, 2010, 05:18 PM
Naw dude, kissing a girl is borderline, dome yes sex deffinitly, but thinking about other girls and watching porn deff not.

problematic
April 8th, 2010, 06:44 PM
I think it's fine, but i guess it also depends on your partners view on the situation

lizzard
April 26th, 2010, 08:42 PM
watching porn isn't cheating, unless ur watching someone you know personally, then its wrong to whoever your dating

Sonic15
April 26th, 2010, 09:31 PM
na its not cheatin

matherew
April 26th, 2010, 11:12 PM
i dont think it is at all

matthewb23
April 27th, 2010, 09:50 PM
porn is not cheating. it is a way to pleasure your self when your partner is not around

jmanson2
April 27th, 2010, 11:35 PM
NO unless its an actual person its not cheating porn is just so you jack off and dont actually cheat.

Vacuola
April 27th, 2010, 11:47 PM
Personally I think that is cheating. Why? Is because the mind is more powerful than we think. With it you could do all kind of stuffs using your imagination. So if in your head you are thinking and desiring the person on the porno. You are cheating in your mind with another human being.

supperfun
April 28th, 2010, 01:16 AM
nope lotta guys watch it..just to jerk off with

Deletedddd
May 3rd, 2010, 05:24 PM
nope...its not a big deal

Trackstar29
May 3rd, 2010, 08:24 PM
Noo??

GamerX20
May 3rd, 2010, 11:25 PM
no it is not cheating

volcomdude
May 4th, 2010, 12:23 AM
Nooooooooooo!!

HankHand
May 4th, 2010, 12:37 AM
in my opinion, porn is not cheating. at all

Mystic
May 4th, 2010, 05:00 AM
Yeah it is cheating

guacamole24
May 4th, 2010, 05:13 AM
Well, not really... as long as you don't rely on the porn more to satisfy you than your boyfriend/girlfriend does... if you need that, and you are sexual with him/her, you might wanna reconsider the relationship.