my feelings

[Jess]

okay I asked almost the same question on another forum months ago and I hated the responses (most of them). most of them were pretty mean and they did not help at all.

On that forum when people neg rep me I always feel hurt idk why and I can't help it and I always have to tell myself to stop feeling hurt because it's just a stupid neg rep

their response:

"You are so stupid to feel that way on the internet"

"Get a life"

"There's something wrong with you if you just get a neg rep"

some people did defend me and all, but the people that made negative comments made me feel down even more.

but that isn't the main problem.


THIS IS the real problem

I hate dodgeball for several reasons

1. When I get hit and have to go to the sidelines, I always want to cry for some stupid reason

2. I am bad at throwing


and another problem

today in Gym (I hate that class) we did an easter egg hunt. I thought it would be fun, but it turned out I HATED it. I did not find any eggs and when I did pick up one I got tagged and I had to give it up and I was accidentally pushed down and at that moments tears sprang to my eyes I couldn't help it I don't know WHY I suddenly wanted to cry I mean I just fell down and just lost one stupid egg I don't get why I am so sensitive :(

and please don't be so negative, that will just hurt my feelings :(

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Hun i don't mean to be offensive or hurt you but life can be tough and cruel. being too sensitive can be disastrous and lead to many problems. you have to learn to roll with the blows. it may sound harsh but life is like that. friends can help but only so much maybe you need to toughen up a bit Hun. and i wish you the best of luck with that. i really do

[INFERNO]

You've just got to try to get used to it and not let tiny things upset you. Being sensitive can be good but when it gets to an extreme, it's no longer beneficial. The world, despite having people who defended you, is not smiles and chuckles, it's tough and the only way to survive is by toughening up, as rough as that sounds. It's like a boxer, your opponents are whatever challenges come your way and you want to be able to take the hits, shrug them off and give the knock-out blows. If you lose, that's fine but you need wins and if you call it quits or cry after the first hit, well the only way to prevent that is to practice getting more hits without backing out while giving hits back.