help

[idkwhattodo]

I'm so lonely I just need someone to talk too preferably a girl. i've never had a girlfriend, its making me go insane I just want someone to tell me that they love me and care about me. No one else does. I cut myself 2 years ago, Injsut started again and its bad, my tolerance of pain has increased which allows me to cut deeper than ever before part of me is scared please I need a girl to love me Im going to die. I cant eat anymore. I ant sleep anymore without a six-pack of beer. Im dead, I'm so dead I dont believe in aything pleeeeeease helpp me Imsooo alone

[Sordid Saint]

Well, I'm not a girl, but I think I could help you out. Just don't think about life that way. Think about all of the chances you could get from people. Wait for the right time, be daring and ask someone out even if you don't know that they like you, talk to more girls by starting conversations. Those all could help you out. Even if it seem bad, once you find that one girl, you'll be happy about the time that went by trying to find her.

[Amyxoxo]

I'm so lonely I just need someone to talk too preferably a girl. i've never had a girlfriend, its making me go insane I just want someone to tell me that they love me and care about me. No one else does. I cut myself 2 years ago, Injsut started again and its bad, my tolerance of pain has increased which allows me to cut deeper than ever before part of me is scared please I need a girl to love me Im going to die. I cant eat anymore. I ant sleep anymore without a six-pack of beer. Im dead, I'm so dead I dont believe in aything pleeeeeease helpp me Imsooo alone

Darling you are free to PM me anytime but I don't know what you are looking for here.
Someone to love you, then you are better off looking for someone close to you, you will find someone for you one day.
If you are looking for someone to support you then I can help. I have also been cutting for 2 years and I am (steadily) trying to stop.
Amy x

[jacknife]

Women are people and, therefore, typically reciprocate energy. In other words: if you want positive attention you need to be a positive person. It all starts in the mirror.

Think of things you can do now to begin building your self-esteem. It might not be so easy as pointing out something you currently do; you might have to make some drastic changes. But one thing I can tell ya is that if you are serious about changing and getting yourself positive female attention then you need to change yourself first.

We all have our losing streaks, and some people get lucky and find someone to help them over their hump, while others have to go it alone. If you have to go it alone then you just need to recognize the strength you have as a human being and put it to use. You're already putting it to use through self-harm, so you know your power is there; just do something more attractive with it!

Hope this helps. I used to be where you are man, and am still, in many ways, very insecure despite the positive female attention I get. So another hard realization you might have to come to is that females aren't the answer to your problem, and that your insecurities are going to be with you for a long time. But remember, it's not a lack of insecurity that attracts people to one another, it's confidence and honesty and a willingness to be what you want to be.

I've got faith in you, for what it's worth.