Screwed...

[There_Goes_My_Life]

Well this royally sucks. My parents found out about me and my boyfriend having sex. Did I mention this royally sucks??? I mean they only flipped out a little and didn't make us break up so that's good... but we won't be able to see each other as much and we sure as hell won't be getting alone time. He's not allowed at my mom's or dad's for a bit... but I can go over there... but my dad can't find out (i live with my mom). I have to go EVERYWHERE with my mom. I'm not allowed to stay home alone. When my boyfriend IS allowed over here again we will not be allowed upstairs in my room. So yeah... this royally sucks.

[mRojas2000]

man... how did they found out?? i dont know what to say... what if you get help from your best friend?? you might ask her if she can invite you and your bf to her house, and you guys talk, and stuff... if it doesnt work, tell your mom you are going to the movies with your best friend, and go with your bf... or tell your mom you go to a park with your best friend, and go with your bf... there are thousands of things i can say that might work...

try all you can!!!
Miguel

[mRojas2000]

well i didnt see your age... but i think 16 is the perfect age to loose the virginity... i mean, even my best girl friend told me that she was talking with her mom sometime ago, and she told her mom, that she hoped that she wasnt expecting her to still be virgin until 17... so yes, i think 16 its a good age!!
just tell her to get over it, whats done, is done, cant do anything about it...

[Whisper]

I'm assuming your 15-16 (thats the average in america so ima go off that)

I'm a virgin still so I cant give you any advice based on personal experiences
I wasen't really....stable at your age..

alrighty..

Okay your mums scared
your her little girl and shes just trying to protect you

see my parents have always had a diffrent policy
my dad was having sex when he was 12
now i dont think he wanted me to be having it then
but any questions i've EVER had i've ALWAYS been able to ask
If any of us ever needed condoms, alcohol, etc... they'd get it for us
aslong as I was safe
they'd be fine with it


that abstinence crap dosent work
its proven
i mean dear god look at texas
its teen pregnancy rate is higher then every other state COMBINED


If I was you
i'd suggest calmly talking to your mum
assure her that you didnt mean to hurt her or make her feel like your keeping things from her
tell her that shes taught you well, that you know its VERY important to be safe and you always will be
make it clear that she should trust you and your judgment
try to make her understand that you and him really care about eachother
try to show her that your not a little girl anymore
and that your entitled to some privacy
etc...
Dont shut her out
don't get angry, resentful or distant

the average in america is 15.3yrs old
so don't feel bad or upset er guilty or anything
...yea.

[mr_smite1]

wow gr8 response, or u can just say 2 ur mum that you really love him and u wanna stay with him, she might try and stop u from having privacy, but she cannot watch ova u all the time :P Unlucky tho...