Problem..

[Blkbeltteen]

I don't know if this is the right spot to post this but Mods feel free to move it if doesn't relate.

Anyways on with the problem.

My girlfriend and I have been discussing the topic of sex. not getting into any details.. however I asked her if she was a virgin. She said she wasn't which made me nervous because I am.

I'm worried about how I will perform when my first time does come around (no pun intended)..

Performance first time? No idea. Help please?

[PuppetPrince]

Well . we are not suppose to support or give vivid details. Not to mention detailed stories. LOL :P

But i guess i can say this. If i were in your position , i wouldn't worry too much. If she really loves you and trust her. Then you shouldnt worry anything at all. xD if she isnt a virgin , then she obiviously has expericence . But who is it to say that it was good or bad. Anyways, if you f up , im sure she will help you out. Just kinda left her know its your first time. im sure she wont mind helping you out. Good luck ~

[Harley Quinn]

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[Kaius]

Well as the guy above me said we can't give details. But no ones first time is 100% spot on, there will be mistakes but that's just how you learn. Talk to your girlfriend about it, let her know you're a bit nervous. Im sure she won't mind if you do make a mistake, as i said nothing is 100% perfect first time. Hope this helps

[Paladino]

Me and my girlfriend have been talkin about that and I have the same problem, shes not a virgin and I am and I have been worrying incase I do it wrong but her bestfriend told me that I should not worry and that it will come to me naturally, so just think that it will come to you naturally.

[Patchy]

As said earlier, no detailed stories.

My first time was with a girl, she had done it before, I obviously hadn't.

Without going into detail it went ok, she said it was fine, better than the last guy but I'm sure she wasn't exactly going to say I was worse. End of the day if that person loves you there not going to be disappointed since they will know your nervous. It's not always how well you perform its how romantic it is, if you make it horrible for her, then she won't like it.

[Nickk XD]

Here's the facts:

You probably will perform lousy your first time. Most men report ejaculating within minutes of simply ORAL sex their first time. I can tell you from my first experience, I ejaculated within about 3 minutes. I almost did it just by her touching me. If you're EXTREMELY nervous, that can cause you not to have an erection which can actually extend the length of time you will last.

If she's truly not a virgin, she may notice how uncomfortable you feel and she'll probably know you are a virgin. The odds are; however, she is a virgin too and just didn't tell you.

Remember, there's a first time for everything...once the first time is done, every time after that gets easier and you'll begin to last longer. Just go slow, breathe, and relax.

If you're not completely comfortable, you're not ready for sex. Go slower and make sure you're ready.

Sex can ruin a relationship if the proper steps aren't taken.

Use protection.

Good luck.