What's with me?

[Jake C Morris]

I am a loved guy. I make friends really easy, and I make everyone laugh without trying to.

Girls just never seem to like me. Some of my best friends are girls, yet, no girl ever likes me.

What's wrong with me? Is it because I am unattractive? Or I smell? Or is it cause I'm smart, so I always correct people? What is it?

The only girls that have liked me are strange obsessive girls! I didn't like them back.

I want to know what is wrong with me!

I'm a little bit of a nerd, but only at home on xbox live or something. I don't get out very much, only about 1 or 2 times a week. Still! I go to school and people seem to love me!

Are they lying to me? I know one or two people that none of my friends like, am I another one of those 'fake-friends'?
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I mean! I am 14, and never had a chance with a girl I liked! :mad:

[Iron Man]

Well, you are in Middle School or High School. Relationships don't last in those days, and they are just practice. When you are older people will be easier to find.

[Jake C Morris]

Well, you are in Middle School or High School. Relationships don't last in those days, and they are just practice. When you are older people will be easier to find.

Exactly practice! How am I supposed to know what to do on a real date, or do with a real girlfriend if I don't know what to do? Gah! I don't even really know how to act around a girl I like, no ever showed me or taught me! I just get really nervous get this big goofy grin, and talk really quiet!

[ktmay96]

Wow, this seriously sounds like me, but the guys side of things.

I have a lot of friends, and my absolute best friend is a guy, I have known him forever, since we were 2 when my family moved into this neighborhood, and he's never liked me, nor has any of my other guy friends.

I have only had one boyfriend, and he turned out to be not what I expected. He hung out with the "popular group" (which are the only people I'm not friends with, I'm friends with the guys and one girl, but the rest of the girls are mostly b!tches so I dont care) and we didn't talk much. I have never had anyone else like me that I like back. The only other guy who liked me was this creepy guy who is really annoying and no one likes.

I always wondered if there was something wrong with me. All my friends said I was so pretty and such, but I always thought "what if they were lying?" But I finally just thought, no one like me that way. So what? They just want to be friends, and I am obviously not what the guys I know are looking for. I always have high school, and even who knows, some one could change through out the year and start to like me. I know I did, and now I like some one... Haha.

I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. If there was, as many people wouldn't be friends with you. Its just that no girls just so happen to like you in that way, maybe you just so happen to not be what they are looking for. Or they could be too shy or not want to tell you. But, do you like anyone? Try showing interest in them (subtly of course). Talk to them a bit, and be nice. Who knows? They could start liking you.

[Paladino]

Exactly practice! How am I supposed to know what to do on a real date, or do with a real girlfriend if I don't know what to do? Gah! I don't even really know how to act around a girl I like, no ever showed me or taught me! I just get really nervous get this big goofy grin, and talk really quiet!

What do you mean a real date/real girlfriend. At the age you are now they are REAL girlfriends, Aslong as your not immature and fuck it up. Im sorry but I found that offensive as if you are saying When you are a teen all relationships you have are fake ? My friends Mum and Dad have bee ntogether since they were like 15, 16 near enough the age you are. So dont be thinking Relationships at this age are just "Practice" or "Fake".

[Jake C Morris]

What do you mean a real date/real girlfriend. At the age you are now they are REAL girlfriends, Aslong as your not immature and fuck it up. Im sorry but I found that offensive as if you are saying When you are a teen all relationships you have are fake ? My friends Mum and Dad have bee ntogether since they were like 15, 16 near enough the age you are. So dont be thinking Relationships at this age are just "Practice" or "Fake".

What I was trying to say is, there are some couples that are serious, and some that aren't. I mean to say is that, what if I have never had a girlfriend? I wouldn't know how to approach her, she would have much more experience in the dating world then me.

At ktmay96
Yeah, around the middle of the year I started liking this girl, and I would talk to her a lot, and she would talk to me a lot, but never in person. Eventually she stopped talking to me :\