now what am i supposed to do?

[LIsailer19]

well i just found out today that the girl i have liked for as long as i can remember likes someone else. i feel so crushed and depressed :blue:.... i guess thats why they call it a crush. but anyway there is still hope. the guy she likes she wont see till september and i'm pretty much the only guy that she will hang out with this summer. but she consiters us to just be "friends." i dont know if she has any intention of being more than that. i have no idea what to do. the best i though of is to tell one of her friends that i like her, but i dont know how that would work out in the end. does anyone have any advice to make her like me besides flirting or being physically attractive, or even just make me feel better, im so upset :help:

[JunkBondTrader]

Oh dear, the "friends" thing. Well, as harsh as it may be, my advice would be to just move on. It's not the end of the world though. Over the summer just try telling her how much she means to you.

[LIsailer19]

Over the summer just try telling her how much she means to you.

thanks, easier said than done though :whoops:

[mr_smite1]

write an annonymous love letter and leave no hints about who sent it, that way she will know that sum1 likes her v. v. much. If you sign it with something like "from not who you expect" then it will confuse her and she will feel gr8 cos she knows sum1 likes her. Then u also win because you have expressed your feelings with no repercussions ;)

Hope 2 b of help :P

[LIsailer19]

thats a really good idea! thanks! :D

[Hot Fudge]

Oh dear, the "friends" thing. Well, as harsh as it may be, my advice would be to just move on. It's not the end of the world though. Over the summer just try telling her how much she means to you.

This is similar advice to what somone gave me when i was ''crushed'' She was one of my closest friends and i asked her out, but she said no but she still wanted to be really close friends with me. Anyways i started the process of trying to get over her, it wasnt working and in time i realised it asnt going to work but i got to a stage where i could just be her friend, without letting myself want anything more and at the same time still loving her. We eventualy got back to how we where before i asked her out, we where verry close again and we knew practically everything that goes on with each other(things that we dont share with other people) It came to the time where she became infatuated with one of our friends for a few months. She realised that she had seen something that wasnt there and i supported her through that and spoke to both of them, to try and get them to a stage where they could be civil around each other. She then confided in me and told me that she has feelings for someone else, it turned out to be me! anyways me and her are together now and i think we will be for a long time. I hope so;)

So my advice to you is share stuff with her, get close make her feel that she can connect with you and maybe you could end up in the same situation as me but skip out a lot of the pain and suffering i had to go through.

Good Luck to you i really hope it goes well for you

[LIsailer19]

Good Luck to you i really hope it goes well for you

thank you! :D i'm happy that you story turned out well in the end. hopefully mine will too. ;)

[mr_smite1]

awww,good luck,.

We all want a happy ending, but it will not always happen:(

[RowanVer.3.0]

Best advice you'll ever get on this matter:
Move on to another chick. She's not interested. You may be able to fool her into going out with you for a short time even if she doesn't really like you as more than a "friend".... But.. Do you really want that?


-Rowan

[mr_smite1]

But it might go all topsy turvy and you will end up with a disaster on ur hands...i should know :(

[fdsgfg55465]

ttheres not much you can do

[mr_smite1]

Well skittles, there is one definite thing, but tying people up in your wardrobe is sort of...illegal :P

[nullandvoid123]

Best advice you'll ever get on this matter:
Move on to another chick. She's not interested. You may be able to fool her into going out with you for a short time even if she doesn't really like you as more than a "friend".... But.. Do you really want that?


-Rowan
Usually I don't agree with your 'advice,' but this time I do. I've been in the same situation, and 9 outta 10 times, the girl isn't going to go out with you. The story above is the first time I've ever seen that happen. Sorry dude, but you'll probably have to move on. :/

[mr_smite1]

awwww, good luck finding betsey aswell m8

[nullandvoid123]

Thanks. :)