Coming Out...

[Pudd]

My cousin is visiting, were like brother and sister. I want to tell her that im pansexual, but im scared.
Any advice please?

[Peace God]

you'll probably have to explain what "pansexual" is after saying it, which might make it extra awkward

not trying to sound like an ass, im just sayin...

[Pudd]

Yeah, i can understand that... Its just i dont want her thinking im Gay and always looking to see how fit men are. I really couldnt care less how someone looks and she would just assume that im gay anyway, which kind of worries me =/

[deletemeandmypostplz]

just out of curiousity, what is pansexual?

[Pudd]

just out of curiousity, what is pansexual?
Pansexual is where someone does not take into account the gender of a person, whether they are a boy, or a girl with a penis or a man with breasts.
But on whether they love that person and will not let the other persons physical attributes get in the way of love.

To put it simply:
If you love someone, it doesnt matter what gender they are.

[deletemeandmypostplz]

oh then that i agree with. combined with my preference. i say just talk to her and tell her straight forward, explain what it is. and dont panic if she ask why are you telling me this?

[CuriousDestruction]

if you are like brother sister, just tell her. i think she'll still love you. brothers and sisters don't stop loving each other cuz one of them is pansexual. don't be afraid.

[deletemeandmypostplz]

depends on the brother sister relationship, but thats just me thinking.

[Fruit_Tart.]

i want to do the same too... with my girl cuz. were tight like two peas in a pod(lol). and i think you should tell her straight out while you guys are talking (alone). and jus tell her not to freak out about it if you guys are like a bro and a sis. :D

[Pudd]

She already asked me yesterday if i was Gay. Which i answered no to, she said she wouldnt mind if i was.
Im definately going to tell her before she goes home... I just need to find the right time :(

[Peace God]

She already asked me yesterday if i was Gay. Which i answered no to, she said she wouldnt mind if i was.
How did that question come about? and why didnt you take that opportunity to tell her?

Im definately going to tell her before she goes home... I just need to find the right time :(
what about right now?

and what i was trying to say before is that you should just say you are bi at first instead of "pan"sexual because there's a good chance it will make coming out easier and less awkward cause not everyone knows wat it is...btw i have no problem with pansexualilty, in fact i am sort of pansexual

[Pudd]

How did that question come about? and why didnt you take that opportunity to tell her?


what about right now?

and what i was trying to say before is that you should just say you are bi at first instead of "pan"sexual because there's a good chance it will make coming out easier and less awkward cause not everyone knows wat it is...btw i have no problem with pansexualilty, in fact i am sort of pansexual

I didnt tell her then because we were in the car with our grandparents. I think we were talking about the movie Bruno at the time.
I cant tell her now because its 2:30 AM and shes asleep.
I also dont want her to think that I only like men.