How to find out if someone is gay...???

[Bobfrank543]

I'm gay and I like this guy, but i don't know if he's gay...i've heard people say he is, but im not sure if they are telling the truth... Is there any way I would be able to figure out if he is or not?:confused:

[Harley Quinn]

There is no real way to know..unless he tells you himself. Why not talk to him and ask?

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[nick]

A good first step is to talk about gays more generally and try to see if he seems accepting towards gay people or more homophobic. If that goes well you could try coming out to him and see how he takes that, if he is gay he might say me too. Its all high risk, you could end up losing a friend.

[Cherokee17]

try saying something like "hey i heard some kids saying u were gay but if u were i totally dont care" and see what he says then......

[Carfreakjack]

Just say to him like hey I heard rumors that u were gay. I just want to see if they were true. And it doesn't matter if u r. Or something like that

[PuppetPrince]

Well let's see. I would offer for you to be friends with him first. Like talk on similar topics and such. I say give it like about a week, to let it settle in. And then you can bring that certain topic. Now depending on how the conversation goes you can tell if he is or not. Or if you want to progress it. SO it's all on you. good luck.

[Fruit_Tart.]

yeah. i think you should become acquainted with him first (friends). then when you can ask questions and think your ready jus ask him if hes into guys. (not gay becuz he could be bi.) :D

[thepieman]

There is no way of knowing without asking really. The best was is to make friends with him, then ask him who he likes. You could also see how he reacts if you tell him you are gay. It might not be a great idea to just ask are you gay, you don't want it to go the wrong way, especially if you like him.