accepting the truth

[Cherokee17]

hey ive recently come to terms that im bi and all but at the sametime its hard for me to accept it, like my best friend is bi but when he asks me stuff about my self i really dont feel comfortable, basically i just dont like talking about it, any advice you can give to help me with my problem?
any advice is good, thanks!

[nick]

Try finding someone on here that you feel you can trust and talk to, sometimes its easier with people on here than with people that you actually know, you can be more open and no one is going to judge you badly. Plenty of us have been through similar things. Talk to me anytime if it might help.

[Brayden]

If you don't feel up for talking about it, you really don't have to. It's not required that you have to 'talk' about your orientation, straight people don't have to 'talk' about being straight so why should it make sense for you to have to talk about it?

[Cherokee17]

yea ur right, but sometimes i wana fully accept it that i am bi, but when ppl ask me if im gay or str8 i just say yes, drama where im from is a hot topic lol

[CuriousDestruction]

well, start by telling your best friends, then, gradually, tell everyone else. if your best friend is bi, you probably won't have much trouble getting support. also, just talk about it with people here. i'm always happy to listen. so are most people on vt.

[Cherokee17]

Thank u so much!