How to say no

[MaliciousBunface]

seriously, i find it so hard to say no to a friend if they ask me to do sumthn..i dunno why but i just do :|

[Rutherford The Brave]

Just say no, its not fair for someone to force you to do something.

[Inconvenience]

probably they never ask u something u strongly object to do. that's a nice trait to do everything for ur friends :) just try to keep ur own option about things and never do what's against ur rules ;) otherwise it's nice thing to luv friends :)

[autumncook]

sometimes i find it had to say no also but if you really dont want to do something you just need to say it

[MaliciousBunface]

as in they dont force me to do it, but if i dont do it ill feel bad abt myself

[taylortheinnocent]

its natural to want to say yes and make people happy......although then u run the risk of people asking you to do stuff because they know youll always say no, and maybe use that to their advantage......maybe try saying no sometime and see how they react

[lipstick_kisses23]

same here :/, i think they kinda take advantage of my kindness though. I feel a bit stepped on. do you feel the same when your family asks for too much?

[Hollywood]

well, I mean, you just simply have to put your foot down and say no. I understand how you might feel bad, it's good that you want to help your friends, but you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Don't feel bad, just tell yourself that you did the right thing.

Good luck

[Huskyboy132]

Haha same. I always have the tendency to think of others before I think of myself. I've been saying NO to things since a while and it gave me for freedom and I got to know myself better. Weird as it sounds, doing things for other people takes up a lot of your personal time.

[Contra]

Like almost everyone else said, saying no is important, or else your friends may think you'll do whatever they want. It may make you feel bad, but you'll just have to deal with that feeling. That's what I do. :)

[watevar]

jus say no n if they really r ur friends then theyll understand

[Brighter.Tomorrow]

If you really can't say no. Make an excuse. It's no one's place to push further.

[Peace God]

I do the same thing all the time. The worst part is that you think they are gonna return the favor...

[magikarpy]

You feel you need to be accepted. So you do things you don't want to do. This is a psychological thingamajig. You need a friend to help you say no.