Oral sex

[txrose]

Last night my boyfriend wanted to have sex, I told him no, but did end up letting him perform oral sex on me. I enjoyed it but now feel guilty about it. What does anyone on here think about this subject.:what:

[itzyogrll]

If you likes it. I say don't regret it. It's normal to feel that way.. You're just hanving seconds thoughts about the whole thing and recepping it. But, at this point now there is really nothing you can do about it. And, obviously if it is on your mind you enjoyed. Don't sweat it. it's all good.

[autumncook]

i say if you liked it then dont worry about it

[txrose]

Thanks for the thoughts on it. I did enjoy it very much but thought maybe I did wrong. The oral sex made me feel like I never have before:D

[godnose]

It's ok. It doesn't change anything. Even when you have sex. You are the same person. It's something to be thought about carefully so it's good that you are. But once you do something it doesn't really affect who you are or what you're worth.

[Close102]

i think any sex at the age of 14 is not a great idea. but taking out the age factor oral sex is generally safer than other forms of sex.

[Lemonlover934]

Don't feel guilty because you think you should, its all about when your ready. And if its the compromise you found its better than being pushed or rushing into anything. x

[kentucky girl]

If you enjoyed it then don't fee guilty about it. I see nothing wrong with oral sex.

[Kassablanca]

Oral sex is great. I'm just having thoughts 'cause you're 14, but meh.
Just be careful and have fun, girl.

[XxSarahxX]

If you enjoyed it then don't worry about it, you're going to feel guilty about of course! x

[Cromm]

What do you feel guilty about, enjoying oral sex or not reciprocating?

On the former, there's no need to feel guilt over enjoying sex of any kind. Over allowing it to happen... well that depends on your situation.

As for the latter... I don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is, so keep in mind this is a very general statment, but are you sure your guilt wasn't his intention?

Some boys know certain tricks to get what they want. If you said no to giving him oral, and he suggested just going down on you, it may have been his intention to make you feel guilty enough to do it for him too.

Just a thought.

[Mei-Cindy]

I'd love to be eaten and to reciprocate-it would be a very nice way to have intense pleasure and intimacy and still keep your virginity. It's one of my favorite fantasies.

[Kitty Purry]

I don't think you should feel guilty, you enjoyed it and he wanted to so your find. :D

[hannahd96]

I felt a bit Guilty the first time I did anything with someone, but believe me you will soon be ok.

[just-another-guy]

It's ok. It doesn't change anything. Even when you have sex. You are the same person. It's something to be thought about carefully so it's good that you are. But once you do something it doesn't really affect who you are or what you're worth.

i cant agree with this more its very true.^ so don't weary if you enjoyed it than you are ok don't sweat it

[sensor97]

What's with all this guilt and shame - a much to be regretted hang over from the Victorian era. Girls and guys are sexually mature at younger and younger age, but must wait longer and longer to afford to get married or to live together. If God gave us sexual feelings, he gave us the free will to use them, there's nothing irresponsible about sex, it's the unwanted babies part that's irresponsible. Oral sex must be one of the safest forms of contraception. If you both want to do it, then enjoy and stay safe!

[Mortal Coil]

If he willingly went down on you and you enjoyed it, then there's no reason to feel guilty about that. It was a mutually consensual act, yadda yadda.
Still, be careful.

[KnifeParty]

I would gladly give any attractive girl oral sex....

I'm male, of course.

[ImCoolBeans]

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