TakeMyHand
April 1st, 2010, 05:59 PM
Ugh, there's just so much fighting and sneering at each other around here. I can't stand it. My sister's boyfriend is always recklessly screwing things up (for example he wrecked OUR car 3 times and didn't even ask to drive it, he used without asking and destroyed my guitar and Xbox, the list goes on and on), he has no respect for us even though he has no other home to go to (because he messes everything up for them too and wares out his welcome before just moving on to the next person to sap the life out of) except the one here that my mom has given him. Yet he goes around bitching to my sister that me and my mom are the bad guys somehow and the answer is to kick US out of OUR house! Ungrateful swine.
And my sister will never accept that he's no good because she's so afraid of being alone. So whenever he does another stupid destructive thing or bitches about us, my sister always defends him and my mom and sister get into these huge screaming arguements like right now. We're building another house somewhere else and we plan to split the dog breeding business up between the two places, with me and my mom staying there and my sister and her boyfriend staying here. But I'm so sick of it, it'll be at least another year before the house and dog pins and building is set up and we can move out. I just wish I could just go to a university right out of high school but we can't afford it so I have to go to a community college for the first 2 years, not to mention I would be abandoning my mother to these two who will probably succeed in taking over completely if I'm not here... It's ridiculous.
What the hell am I suppose to do? I'm always just kind of there getting stuck in the crossfire, whenever the arguements run out of steam my sister decides to go "Well what is Cody doing to help right now?" umm, more than your boyfriend is and I'm not destroying or bitching about stuff every five minutes like him, not to mention that I am, you know, my mom's son afterall and he's just some loser who decided to move in because he can't and doesn't care to take care of his own self. What the hell does he have to complain about? What gives him the right to talk bad about us? My mom gave him a home, food, laundry, a vehicle to drive, electric, any other stuff around the house he wants to use like it's his, and not to mention a girlfriend (my sister) to go get pregnant and then have to go get an abortion which I had no say in having my unborn nephew aborted because no one even bothered telling me until a whole year afterwards... :mad:
I've never directly argued with or confronted him though, I'm mostly just in the background or, like I said, in the crossfire. Should I finally just go tell him to get the fuck out of our lives?
And my sister will never accept that he's no good because she's so afraid of being alone. So whenever he does another stupid destructive thing or bitches about us, my sister always defends him and my mom and sister get into these huge screaming arguements like right now. We're building another house somewhere else and we plan to split the dog breeding business up between the two places, with me and my mom staying there and my sister and her boyfriend staying here. But I'm so sick of it, it'll be at least another year before the house and dog pins and building is set up and we can move out. I just wish I could just go to a university right out of high school but we can't afford it so I have to go to a community college for the first 2 years, not to mention I would be abandoning my mother to these two who will probably succeed in taking over completely if I'm not here... It's ridiculous.
What the hell am I suppose to do? I'm always just kind of there getting stuck in the crossfire, whenever the arguements run out of steam my sister decides to go "Well what is Cody doing to help right now?" umm, more than your boyfriend is and I'm not destroying or bitching about stuff every five minutes like him, not to mention that I am, you know, my mom's son afterall and he's just some loser who decided to move in because he can't and doesn't care to take care of his own self. What the hell does he have to complain about? What gives him the right to talk bad about us? My mom gave him a home, food, laundry, a vehicle to drive, electric, any other stuff around the house he wants to use like it's his, and not to mention a girlfriend (my sister) to go get pregnant and then have to go get an abortion which I had no say in having my unborn nephew aborted because no one even bothered telling me until a whole year afterwards... :mad:
I've never directly argued with or confronted him though, I'm mostly just in the background or, like I said, in the crossfire. Should I finally just go tell him to get the fuck out of our lives?