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JDB_95
April 1st, 2010, 04:36 PM
Baisically me and my ex have been apart for about 5 months for the first 2ish months we still txt each other and stuff but after a bit we kinda just stopped. i wernt tht bothered were still friends and theres nothing we have against each other. But...

over the past month i can't stop thinking bout the time when we was going out and how i want to still be with her but at the same time i don't(it might not make sense but im sooo confused). i was gonna ask out another girl but she got back with her ex.

i know another girl likes me but i dont know how i feel about her and lastly (probably gonna need a girls opinion for this) another girl who i talk to alot on msn who i kinda like keept talking about this boy who she liked and just wanted to talk to someone about it so we did and she said she was over him. then after a bit she started bringing up the fact that she didn't like boys who led girls on and posted stuuf on facebook about how someone she liked someone but just wanted them to see how she really felt about them. we started getting quite close over msn and flirting alot so is she refering to me

PLZ HELP lol why am i now struggling to get over my ex when i was already over her and what should i do about the other 2 girls. does the girl who i talk 2 on msn like me or am i just being stupid?

Hollywood
April 2nd, 2010, 01:39 AM
sorry, i cant give you a girls opinion, but maybe i can help.

NEVER get back together with an ex. if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. obviously, there was a reason you two broke up. its normal to have that "what if" feeling after you break up, i do too, but it goes away eventually.

its hard to tell whether or not an internet relationship is real. sadly, 95% of the time, it isn't. if you think a girl at school likes you, thats the girl you should probably go with. however, if the MSN girl lives close-by, that's the one to go with, its seems like you two are compatabile, at least on the internet.

dont worry about your ex, that relationship is done and over, don't go back to her. good luck, and pm me with any more questions.

JDB_95
April 2nd, 2010, 08:05 AM
I know the girl on msn we used to go the same school and now she lives bout 30 mins away from me and thanks

Hollywood
April 2nd, 2010, 10:04 AM
I know the girl on msn we used to go the same school and now she lives bout 30 mins away from me and thanks

well in that case, meet up with her sometime! it sounds like you two would really hit it off. and you're welcome.