Importance of Sex

[My_Toes_Are_Cold]

Over the past century, sex has grown from a hush-hush touchy subject to being routinely put into movies, TV shows, and many other things. People are always worried about how well they put out in bed, and society puts out messages that sex is the greatest thing in the world, that it is better than anything else. Nowadays, it seems to be more of a source of hazard than a source of happiness. So many people are infected with STDs like Herpes and AIDS. The sick thing that bothers me about people with Herpes are those Valtrax (or whatever) commercials, where the people are so horny that they have to keep on having sex, even after contracting an uncurable STD. Who wants to openly admit to being that irresponsible? People also use pregnancies - and even fake pregnancies - to technically steal money off of people.

Personally, I have sex on the very bottom of my to-do list. In the definition of overrated, there's a second definition that says "2. Sex". I think of sex as something to share with someone you really, really love (meaning I could have one of those "love at first sight" revelations, if we totally hit it off the first night), and something that shouldn't be treated as casual. I know so many people in the world today who believe in the exact opposite, which curbs me to believe that with my very traditional beliefs of hating casual sex, that I probably won't get a girlfriend anyways. I want to chit and chat and get to know the other person, and make sure they're right.

What are some thoughts you people have on the importance of sex?

PS: I'm not saying sex it bad, I'm just saying I think it's overrated, and seen as too important to the whole world.

[redcar]

sex i think is important and i dont mean on the level of we need sex to reproduce to continue the human race. like when it comes to a relationship with someone and you have sex you are giving yourself to each to other and it sort of makes the relationship more intimate, if ya get my drift.

i will admit there is a lot of people going around with STD's and STI's and worse still who know they have them and have pass them on intentionally. now that is very wrong, but with everything good comes something bad, always a dark side.

[My_Toes_Are_Cold]

... like when it comes to a relationship with someone and you have sex you are giving yourself to each to other and it sort of makes the relationship more intimate, if ya get my drift.

I can understand that, and I agree with that under certain circumstances. Like, I wouldn't want to share a more intimate relashionship with someone I don't know too well. I would rather share an intimate moment with someone who I decided I really loved.

[northskater110]

sex is the most important thing in the world!!!!!!

[mRojas2000]

I wouldn't want to share a more intimate relashionship with someone I don't know too well.

does this mean that you dont know well your girlfriend?? i mean... most people when they are teenagers, i guess do sex with their couples... and you are not going to do sex with him/her after three days going out... you wont be as confident, and as sure if you want to do it until you have at least six month with him/her... thats what i think at least...

Miguel

[some1]

Yeah, i get what he's saying.

There was this one movie, I forget what its called, but I remember this one line where he says "How can you go on without having sex?" or something like that. That really annoyed me, cuz come on, geez. i'm a virgin and Im fine. I know these guys in my school who have these really freaky parties just for sex. Its weird and disgusting.

For me, sex is something that should be shared between you and someone you really love. Like when you're married. Whats there to look forward to in marraige if you've already done it with a million other people? It's not so special.

But thats what i think. I have no objections to sex before marraige, but for me, I'd wait until i get married.

[mRojas2000]

well... some people might wait until they get married... some wont... they are sooo curious, that will give almost anything to do it (trust me... i live in italy, and here man is really pervet)

[LIsailer19]

i think sex is important. it can do a lot of things for people such as make them feel better when they are down, express love between spouses, and just make people happy. i do agree though that sex is overrated when it is portrayed in todays modern society as a drunken orgasm between two strangers in the movies or on tv. sex is a beautiful level of intimacy that should be saved for people who truly love eachother.

[My_Toes_Are_Cold]

i think sex is important. it can do a lot of things for people such as make them feel better when they are down, express love between spouses, and just make people happy. i do agree though that sex is overrated when it is portrayed in todays modern society as a drunken orgasm between two strangers in the movies or on tv. sex is a beautiful level of intimacy that should be saved for people who truly love eachother.

Very well-put. :)

[TheWizard]

Sex is the meaning of life. :bigsmile:

[Whisper]

Sex is the meaning of life.

hahahahaha
Fuckin A!

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The need for acceptance for compasion and understanding
the need to be loved
is a basic human desire, right and necesity
Through out alllll of history there have been two constants that every society has been based on
Sex and war
life and death
yin and yang


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Humans don't have many instincts
were born to soon
That dosent mean were devoid of any
Sex is vital both the social aspects and the biological need
Its at the very core of being human
Its permeated through out all of humanitys history, it has been the driving force, the insperation to create beautiful works of art
The after effects the need to protect a child at any costs is the basis of compasion

When you look at modern day society
Teens are having sex at a younger and younger age then we used to in RECENT history
THats because A were entering puberty at a MUCH younger age then we used to
the social aspects and the desire to explore
And the day to day shit we deal with
In short were growing up faster then we used to

Now i'm 18 and I still havent had sex
I'm a virgin by choice I havent met the right girl
I'm waiting to meet the girl that'll make my depression fade
that'll wash the blood away

Until then
i'm content to wait

~xXx~

[some1]

..um...yes, yes, what you sed *}Whisper{*.

lol

[Charlotte]

I'm not saying sex it bad, I'm just saying I think it's overrated, and seen as too important to the whole world.
Believe it or not sex is important to the world. It's how species have survived.

I didnt see sex as something you'd share with one person after marriage. It seemed to fairy tale-ish to me and it seemd unrealistic. It seemed like a pointless vow that wouldnt mean anything anyways.

If sex is such a low importantance to you, then why is it important that you only have it with someone you reallylove? Obviously it is important enough for you to make a vow to save your virginity. Otherwise if it wasnt important then it wouldnt matter either way.

[My_Toes_Are_Cold]

Well, I don't even mean "someone you really love" as a spouse. I have nothing against pre-marital sex. I also don't mean that people shouldn't have sex, I mean that, in my experience, I've seen people who obsess over sex so much that it's illogical.

I understand it's importance, in terms of giving people pleasure, love, and lets our species (along with almost every other species) continue to live, but I don't like the idea that sex is so casual nowadays, and that so many people are so irresponsible with it.

[Dante]

well let's see....We are here to procreater and I do agree that sex is a wondeful thing and should be shared with a person that you are emotionally connected with, but lets face it, shit happens....people are overcome by lust and they do it.

If sex isn't important to you share it with the person you love, if it isn't then protect urself because if you are going to be really *bleh* about sex, then you dont really care who you screw.

* I also hate those Valtrex commercials with a passion

[boognish]

Sex is a drug, and like a drug it feels good for some, painful for the rare. Sex has long term consequences, i.e. a small ball of flesh that seems to need no sleep. But if given the correct precautions, sex can be as safe as...well masterbation. Sex can also be addicting, and that is the problem now, everybody wants it, and often. What happens is that sex leaves the relm of love and enters the relm of heroine. Seriously, nowadays you can buy just about anything for a quicky in an alley. And the younger kids are having sex is caused by sex getting in mainstream entertainment. Look at almost any music video made in the last 5 years, and Hugh Hefner could be able to take credit for making them. For those of you that dont get the joke, Hugh is the creator of playboy. So sex becomes a popular thing, hey its like the latest fasion, sex is the 'in' thing. Sex is gonna be watched by and 18 year old from MTV rap-off,copied by the 18 year olds 13 year old brother watching the 18 year old and his/her friends act/dress, then the 13 year old will be copied by the 9 year old and so on until you got toddlers giving handjobs and wearing "Sperm Dumpster" T-shirts...that is about when the world is gonna wake up and realize, sex is fine and is great but hey....barely legal is not something that a 5 year old fits in...

oh as an example of how bad the sex is spreading in america, i was watching some movie on ABC family and do you know what popped up as a comercial? GUYS GONE WILD....i didnt even know that existed. well now i do and so does some 7 year old girl that just got visually molested by ABC. I was seriously thinking of contacting the FCC but i feel there should be less censorship...but watching the media have a field day would have been fun too....

[Melchi0r]

Sex, while being important for procreation, isn't the most important thing in your day-to-day life. It's not like I'd only have sex so I could have children, it's just that sex is too high up on our to-do lists.

[bluemonick]

We wouldnt be here without sex, ;)

[kolte]

sex is casual nowadays. that is almost refreshing. its more widly accepted and therefor, at least i am, you can be less nervous, more confident, better sex. not saying that people should fuck on the streets, but to me at least, its not a huge deal. people fuck, babies happen, be safe, no need to worry.

[Hyper]

Hmm

Personally as long as I care all those ppl who want to fuck themselves silly, go ahead just use a condom dont spread your diseases or cause abortions or unplanned children and single mothers ;P

And yes sex should be shared with some1 you are emotionaly contacted to, but sometimes when your single its obviously better to have a 1 nigh relationship

[fdsgfg55465]

sex i think is important