Horrible relationships suck.

[SnowWolf]

Ex 's suck, i know mine sure does. :( Well, i just needed to talk about this in any way. I hope im not the only one that has been dumped for no reason at all, only to find that he/she was cheating. :(

Whats your story?

[Kaius]

Believe me, you're not. My last proper relationship was with what really should be classed as my first relationship. Was with this girl for 2 1/2 years. Suddenly at the end of September she left me. At first I was numb, didn't know what to say. I then spent the next week and a half trying to change her mind. So i was logging into facebook one night, forgetting i still had her details in my browser, i logged into the wrong one. A conversation came up and me being me, not recognising the name of the girl who was "On my contact list", i started to read. I wish i hadn't. It was saying how much she liked this guy, and he liked her, and there was only one thing in the way. Me. So i confronted her, she admitted it and i broke down. They then got together and she turned on me. Started telling me i wasn't ever worth a relationship, she didn't ever love me etc. This was literally the one person i allowed myself to trust. The experience led me to suicide, but tbh i came out of it stronger. He's a prick for what he did to you, and you aren't the one in the wrong. I hope things get better for you

[Sage]

One of my ex's went on to become a lesbian for a whole 3 months and got knocked up recently. She's a psychopath, and not the nice sort of psychopath that I find irresistible. My other ex and I are actually still very good friends, given it was.. two, two and a half years ago or something.

[SnowWolf]

Desolation, thats horrible. Im sorry about what had happened between you and her. So I take it as you accidentially logged into her FB account, and you saw the convo? Well at least she was being secrative about it. Each day when i log into my account, all i see is him trying to get all these girls and posting statuses like "Whats going on with us ;) "
Yup, i still have to look at it. And hes even going after my ex-friends...whom i would have thought that they would at least say no. But, people are selfish creatures. They take what they can, and when they have an oppertunity to get more, they will take that too...too any expense.
2 1/2 years must have been hard to suddenly end. Im really sorry, and just know that no one is that special to end your life over it. You'll find someone else! :)

[Kaius]

If you look at it that way, it was a good thing. But she was actually just planning to just cut me out of her life completely, block me from everything with no reason explaining why. For someone that promised they wouldn't ever do that, it hurt more than if she was honest with me. Still, nothing to be hung up about, I've found someone better, much better. :) Your ex sounds like a spineless ass to be honest, you deserve better. I guess its just human nature, you go for anything within reach, not something you really need to fight for because it requires too much. Tbh I fought for my girl, and in the end I got her, i guess i should thank my ex for something and that's leading me to Siobhan. Still, good luck to you, you seem like a nice person, im sure you'll find someone

[SnowWolf]

One of my ex's went on to become a lesbian for a whole 3 months and got knocked up recently. She's a psychopath, and not the nice sort of psychopath that I find irresistible. My other ex and I are actually still very good friends, given it was.. two, two and a half years ago or something.

wow, so shes a lesbian, and got knocked up? guess her lover must have had a penis! lol. How come you didnt know that she would turn out this way> Was she normal in the beggining?

[Asylum]

Amen to that statement. ex's do suck. i'm not saying my story lolz my ex in on VT, and i don't think he'll want me sharing with everyone here lolz.

[SnowWolf]

Still, nothing to be hung up about, I've found someone better, much better. :) Your ex sounds like a spineless ass to be honest, you deserve better.

I feel you, i got cut off for no reason at all, other then that lie of "I need some time alone" . Yeah, well his "Alone time" was spent flirting with other girls and trying to get into their pants.
Good for you that you found better! Im sure i will too, one day. :D

[Harley Quinn]

Moved: Twpr :arrow: R&D

Well, not getting into too much detail..my ex told me to basically kill myself that i was too emotional and stuff. Meh.

[SnowWolf]

Moved: Twpr :arrow: R&D

Well, not getting into too much detail..my ex told me to basically kill myself that i was too emotional and stuff. Meh.

Sounds like a b****. lol. Personally, people who are not emotional at all are horrible people. They cant tell you they love you, and they cant express thir feelings. Whats the problem with being emotional? lol, i dont see one!

[Harley Quinn]

He certainly did lol. His problem tbh, I've moved on a found someone that does care about me. That's all that really matters to me really.

[trina]

Believe me, you're not. My last proper relationship was with what really should be classed as my first relationship. Was with this girl for 2 1/2 years. Suddenly at the end of September she left me. At first I was numb, didn't know what to say. I then spent the next week and a half trying to change her mind. So i was logging into facebook one night, forgetting i still had her details in my browser, i logged into the wrong one. A conversation came up and me being me, not recognising the name of the girl who was "On my contact list", i started to read. I wish i hadn't. It was saying how much she liked this guy, and he liked her, and there was only one thing in the way. Me. So i confronted her, she admitted it and i broke down. They then got together and she turned on me. Started telling me i wasn't ever worth a relationship, she didn't ever love me etc. This was literally the one person i allowed myself to trust. The experience led me to suicide, but tbh i came out of it stronger. He's a prick for what he did to you, and you aren't the one in the wrong. I hope things get better for you


We all go through difficult relationships, not once but probably for the rest of our lifetime and well just have to deal with it 'coz life is never easy..

When I get dumped, I cry for a week, rant to my gf for another week and just allow myself to feel the pain and grieve..Until, there's no tears left and I celebrate, by myself. To sad endings and happy beginnings . I start to mingle with the singles (http://www.sixsingles.com/)club or whoever is dateless and we chill. I survived every single heartache and I'm too proud of that I did :)