He talks about his X alot..normal?

[NeedyTeen]

Hey everyone.
So Im in my first relationship (both are 15) and he tends to talk about his past crushes/gf's a lot. i understand why he talks about one (because she's jealous and is now talking about me so we both talk about her) but the rest? i mean when we talk about what we do at home or what we did in the past years he always goes 'yeah and then i met a girl'.
is that a sign that he really doesn't like me? or am i just taking this too far?


ALSO sometimes our convo's go silent..so how do i break the silence? Any good topics to talk about...obviously other than past relationships?

[Katrina]

1. I think he still loves/cares for his ex but cannot admit it...the only exception would be if he's really sweet and he shows his sweetness to anyone he knows.
2. He sees you as his friend, someone he can openly talk with. He has found comfort in your company that he has shown he trusts you a lot.
3. He's been hinting he likes you a lot -- that is one dangerous assumption that can make or break a relationship...unless it was verbally said. Until this is done, I suggest you keep your relationship at the level of friends and let things roll out and seek its course.
Topics -
The news, your favorite bands, movie, books, friends (positively), websites, games, favorite memories (#1)(it helps if they are funny), family, school, TV, etc. Also if you can a great thing to do is both talk to each other on the phone but both of you turn the TV on the same channel and watch it. When something funny or interesting comes on then you can talk about it right as it happens. This is also great bonding time.

[Asylum]

i agree with KAtrina. my ex had a pic of his ex in his room, which i got upset at... doens't think i should have thougth it was wrong... they are best friends... why can't he have a pic in his room of her? i'm liek what the hell... seioruly? no.. i dind't tell him to get rid of the pics.. just told him i was uncomfortable with it . i'm sorry but you need to tell him how you feel. idid it. of course you can tell it didnt end well xp. but you stay true to yourself girl. i know how sucky that can be. good luck...

[NeedyTeen]

Thanks! He himself told me he likes me and we are together, i always thought it was weird though why he always tells me when he met a new girl. he has told me that all has his past girlfriends came up to him and that im the first whom he actually came up too. so is that good? he's caring and he is the one wanting to hang out not me wanting to hang out (of course i do but u know its him who makes the first move)

maybe i should just tell him Im uncomfortable talking about that. he seems like he'd understand....lol i think i just convinced my own self that everything is okay. ahah thanks gals!

[NeedyTeen]

I'm bumping this thread cause i need a few more answers. :)

[HellHound]

This is his type dear.He likes to reflect on past experience and talk much.If he annoys you you just tell him to stop.Hel understand.:)

[NeedyTeen]

He hasn't done it in a while. So i think he got the picture lol.
thanks