Log in

View Full Version : Delusion of Comfort


Aspiringanonymous
March 30th, 2010, 10:53 PM
I've probably spoken about it before. When something triggers but a tiny spark of depression, and that long-neglected fragment inside clings onto it, greedily attempting to expand its influence. It hopes to subjugate my consciousness to its destructive will, so as to regain the power which it once possessed, but was later stripped of in disgrace. If everything one experiences becomes engraved as a part of us - then, so long as that part remains, no matter how minuscule, it will never cease dreaming of returning to its former glory. What it perceives to be glorious.

It creeps up on me every once in a while. I feel I have considerable immunity to it as of now, mostly due to circumstantial factors in a lifestyle that will soon be coming to an end. Changes await me at the end of these few months, for the better or for worse, but I'm afraid to embrace them. For now - it is always something - the same thing - in my external environment that pulls me back; what will I do when that factor is no longer present?

My willingness to be open to such a destructive force is deeply disturbing; but it is there. It's always been that way. After all, most of my conscious life had been conducted under its shadow, powerless to its manipulation. It almost appears like an abstract mother figure, the only entity in this existence that accompanied me everywhere I went, that promised to never abandon me and actually lived up to its promise. Kind of like how self-harmers would come to see their self-harm as a 'best friend'; a horrible delusion.

It will pass this time, I know it will. But it will come back, and keep coming back, until it succeeds; until this futile resistance fails. I've always known this - one of those gut feelings that can't be described - and I thought at one point that I was okay with it. I would go on living, doing what is expected of me to the best of my ability and walk on to as far as I can manage, in the face of inevitable failure. But whenever the going gets tough, whenever challenges arise, my lack of motivation becomes painfully apparent.

The self-awareness that I love to preach, fails to serve me well after all. I often wish I was completely ignorant, blissful; that I still believed I could attain the state of being which I strive for; that there was something worth believing in after all.

My apologies if that was confusing to follow..

betakuwe
March 31st, 2010, 10:06 AM
I understand what you are trying to say. I felt it before, I feel it now. I just gave up hoping for myself to be blissful. Somehow, i'm convinced that Depression, emptiness, fill that empty space with bliss and the depression dies. Since depression is a mental disorder, I somehow convinced myself that i wouldn't be able to do it without help of anything. Get some help, talk to somebody you know about it, if it's smothering you too much. Sorry, I'm not exactly sure how to comfort you in a way or two.

Magus
March 31st, 2010, 11:09 AM
We all went through that same road. The same sensation, it did strike us all.

Some of the people remained tangled in its web. Some of the people created a world of their own; a delusion to guise in from the certainty. I was one of them.

A manifestation that seize us all. Unthoughtful of its host, breaking them along with its own downfall.

Only those with the power to realize, who wakes up and open their eyes to see their contiguous world. They are the only one who will never be its victims again.

I fought it my will-power. Hoping that it does not crawls back in to my life.

I defeated it with each second I mature in life; thus, opening new paths to apprehend the meaning of life. They helped me in extinguishing that faithless pain we felt all along.

I finally Shoved it in my past; since then, it is no more to be found in my log of life.
I did it, and so can you. Nothing is impossible. I imposed my faith to destroy it.

Metaphorically, it is a leech. If you keep it, it will keep destroying you. If you destroy it, you have just annihilated the thing that keeps crippling you.

Remember, do not be passive if you need help. Ask around, there's bound to be a soul who can help you.

And good luck. May the light of Diana shine open you.

CuriousDestruction
April 1st, 2010, 01:35 AM
it is one of the greatest flaws in human nature that we find bliss through ignorance and depression through awareness. it's not your fault. it's nobody's fault. however it does mean one thing. you are still human. which is what is important. as long as you are human, you are not completely lost. your soul is relatively intact. peace and love friend, that's all i can say.