Arkward Situation

[cooldude123]

Hi again all..

This is the situation. I am currently going out with a girl for a week. It has been going on for longer than that, but we broke up over something i said, but that's all sorted. I apologised to her after a while so she is willing to give it another try. Anyway, i have been talking to her at school and trying to be a good boyfriend. The only thing i haven't done yet is kiss her, because i don't know if she wants to or if it's a bad move. Also, today she told her best friend (who is mine also) that i'm too 'clingy'. Now, i don't know exactly what to do. If i give her space she might think i'm ignoring her and i don't want to break up like before. Also, i want to get the point when i can kiss her and everything goes fine. So basically, i'm worried everything might collapse and i hope it doesn't. I was talking to her on the internet and texting her, but got no reply...

What do you all think?

[lizzy_200117325]

You need to talk to her face to face so you can firgure out what is making her say you are to clingy and then change a bit. that what my bf did when we first got back together and weve been together for almost a year now

[Kaius]

Tbh, if she's telling you you're too clingy, it might be a good idea to back off for a little while. If she thinks you're ignoring her while doing this, then she might just be finding faults with any of your actions, in which case you might need to evaluate your relationship and where its going. You could possibly avoid this by just casually saying hi if you pass her in the halls or something, but don't go out of your way to do so. Offer her the chance to do something with you, like a movie or something and just try to chill out a little bit. However, If she's avoiding you it sounds like there's more to her actions than she's letting on.

[cooldude123]

Well i sent her a message saying if there is any problems, then you can talk to me about it. From now on, i will do what you have said. Give her space and say hi when i see her. Occasionally hug her etc. Then see how it goes from there...

Thanks for the advice.