Boyfriend says he loves you.

[SnowWolf]

What does it mean when your boyfriend says he loves you, but you know he really doesnt love you yet?

My BF always writes to me on facebook, or text or something that he loves me, and then he continues with our conversation. So what does it mean. I know he doesnt love me. And i dont know how to reply cuz i dont love him yet eigther. Ive told him to stop cuz we are not in love yet, and he said he does it jokingly. I beleived him at first, but he always says it.

[Scarface]

Let him say It, It's not a bad thing. If you really want to ask him why he loves you. Love Is a strong feeling, but If you don't love him yet just let time take It's course no need to rush things.

[SnowWolf]

Let him say It, It's not a bad thing. If you really want to ask him why he loves you. Love Is a strong feeling, but If you don't love him yet just let time take It's course no need to rush things.

So do i go along with it and say it back, like jokingly?

[Scarface]

You can If you want, but If you really want to feel it REALLY feel It wait until you have the feeling In your heart you will know it when yo feel it.

[Evermore]

Maybe he's in love with the idea of being in love. Or maybe he really is in love with you. Who knows?

[SnowWolf]

Maybe he's in love with the idea of being in love. Or maybe he really is in love with you. Who knows?

i know hes not, we have only been together 3 weeks. Personally, he just doesnt strike me as the type of guy who can fall in love that rapidly.

[Evermore]

Then as I said he's in love with the idea of being in love.

[jrob11]

It could simply just be instinct. He may think it's something he's obligated to say just because he's your boyfriend.

[SnowWolf]

It could simply just be instinct. He may think it's something he's obligated to say just because he's your boyfriend.

Thats true. :(

[Kahn]

It is simply something teens do. It is weird. They think love is an emotion that can be played with, twisted. Such as when there is actually a "love" relationship going on between a couple it is serious and the word has meaning, but when there is just a "relationship" going on it can just be something you say to end a conversation or to say good night.

How do you know he doesn't love you? He could. You never know. No matter what you do, don't break up with him on the feeling you think he doesn't love you. If you have proof, then by all means end it. Do not ruin a relationship that has potential though, because sometimes you never know how far it can go. Hope this helps

~Adam

[SnowWolf]

So, i guess everyone was right, maybe he reallly does love me.
He called me last night for the 4th time. We talk alot during the night, and last night he had some problems, he was really depressed, and we talked about those problems. Around 12 or something he called me back, and the first thing he said was i love you. I said it back of course with an aww. Then he said he ment it, and that it would kill him if i ever left him.

I was so flatttered and so happy, and i dont ever see us not loving each other. But i dont think i fully love him yet. So maybe theres my problem, im not ready yet.

nope, hes a sleezbag, he said he needs time off, and told me to block "his stepsister" so i did, then after that he told me that he wasnts to be single and friends for now. So i go back to his fake "stepsisters wall" and he posted "hey baby, when are you and me going out"? hahaha, so ya he really needs time off, to go screw some girl. What do i do.

P.s. he also posted a couple of muinutes after all this " hey im really srry, i just need time off, forgive me :("

What Do I DO!?!?!?!

[lizzy_200117325]

If its only over messages and stuff and neverin person then he doesnt love love you not yet. but there is a what you could say it back if you dont want to feel bad when he always says it and its by saying i love you too as a friend for now.

[Hyper]

If a teenage boy says ''I love you''

70% of the time he wants to get in your pants quicker
20% he is confusing something that is still good & affectionate with love and/probably wants to get in your pants
10% has some serious affection/crush on you or is actually in love with you.

And yes the word love is quite... abused.. When you see people saying ''I love KFC!''

[Soccer Girl 13]

No offence but he doesnt sound like a very good boyfriend.. Do you think you would be better off without him..
it sounds like He is playing with your heart a little bit..

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

my advice is just tellhimhow you feel and if he keeps saying stuff like that to you then he isn't worth it at all. guys like to make us upset and if they keep doing it its only cause they know you will react to it. just don't react and he will stop. if not then i am not sure

[SnowWolf]

No offence but he doesnt sound like a very good boyfriend.. Do you think you would be better off without him..
it sounds like He is playing with your heart a little bit..

Yeah, im seeing it that way too. And hes so ready to meet other girls. F***ing lying sleezbag. It doesnt even matter. He broke my heart in a way, and all he got from this was a whole new level of girls to hook up with. Wonderful.