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lucyinwonderland
March 29th, 2010, 11:05 AM
So basically i've known i was bi-sexual since i was eleven and ive only recently started to open up and tell people about it because i now have a large group of friends who are okay with the homosexual world.
But ...
Im confused because i'm starting to think that i might be gay.
I've had sex with a guy (AGES AGO) and it was good, and i was pretty much in love with my guy best friend for over a year (who is incidentally gay).
But i prefer to masturbate to lesbian porn or bi-sexual porn.
I also prefer to check out girls rather than guys.
And i tend to fantasise completely about girls rather than guys.
And everytime a boy likes me or asks me out i immediately say no and try to find a way out of it.
Yet i dont think it'd be that way if it were a girl who i liked.

Am i gay? Or just a hormonal bi-sexual haha.

nick
March 29th, 2010, 11:10 AM
This is why I find labels unhelpful at times, to me sexuality is more of a sliding scale than 3 fixed points (straight,bi,gay). If you really felt in love with your guy friend before then that would suggest that you are bi but with, under most circumstances, a strong leaning towards the gay side.

Broncos18
March 29th, 2010, 02:50 PM
This helped me out.
I'm pretty positive i'm straight now.
Cause, I can never ever seeing myself with a guy or having sex with a guy.
I guess its just my hormones for right now, but i'm sure i'm straight.