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DarkWingedAngel
March 28th, 2010, 11:26 PM
Ok not sure where to put this, figured id put it here.
Ok so basically when im in a relationship, or anything, pain turns me on. BDSM is my life, like whips, chains, cuffsand all the wonderfull jazz.
Anyways
I was just wondering, is there something wrong with me, I mean love watching(and doing) sexual pain on other people and I love getting it.




Is this wrong? and is there something wrong with me?

cherry_boi
March 28th, 2010, 11:50 PM
nope

alot of people are like that, in extreme situations it can be dangerous, so have a little self control

but yea it's def normal, approximately 10-12% of the adult population engages in that kind of sexual behavior on a regular basis, and over half have tried some form of it at least once <source = various statistics websites>

it's a form of sadism/Sadomasochism

lol not something i'm into but i understand the psychological mechanics of it so i kinda get why it would be arousing to some people

hope that helped :)

Katrina
March 29th, 2010, 12:30 AM
No, there's nothing wrong with you. Even my BF likes to inflict pain on me and I do sometimes really enjoy it.:whoops:
But don't ever let pain control you to the point that you cause permanent damage to your (or anyone else's) body. Stick to pressure points and muscle tears... If you really feel like its not enough, though, certain drugs will cause you a lot of pain... but be sure you trust the person that hands them over. That's all the advice I could give anyone about liking pain. It shouldn't ever be about destruction. Preserve and create. There is no reason to destroy- the weakest will fall in the end.

Bels_Revenge
March 29th, 2010, 04:19 AM
Dont worry, many people like doing that and my old BF did, trust me there's nothibg wrong with you... :)

ShatteredWings
March 29th, 2010, 06:17 AM
Just don't murder whoever you're messing around with.

[it's only "wrong" if you're doing it to little kids, or people who've made it clear they don't want/like it]

DarkWingedAngel
March 29th, 2010, 09:53 PM
So it's normal, Witch means im not some freak of nature.

ackmedsgirl666
April 1st, 2010, 07:10 PM
it is perfectly normal and no ur not a friek
everything had different interests
yours happens to be sexual pain/pleasure
it's no big a deal, if say u mean u like being bitten and stuff( lots of ppl enjoy that)
thats ok too
just don whatever u like if thats what turns u on

Sith Lord 13
April 1st, 2010, 07:15 PM
No more of a freak than any other teenager. Everyone has different things which interest them. BDSM is actually very common. One of the more common kinks in fact.

If you ever want to talk with someone about this, my PM box is always open.