Self.

[randomdude8767]

Im really having problems right now accepting what i look like and my race and stuff like that to the point where its making me really physically and emotionally sick. I feel like im always looked down upon and people just wont talk to me because it. Numerous times i have had tried to commit suicide but...

Has anyone else experienced this or are going through it now???

[dontknow2010]

shouldn't this be in the Mental Crisis Forum???

[Aspiringanonymous]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Mental Crisis - next time, if you see a misplaced post, please use the report button rather than posting to ensure that it is addressed promptly.

A question - can you pinpoint what may have caused these feelings? What is it about who you are that seems to be unacceptable? What changes made to your appearance would help quell these feelings of self-hatred?

Sometimes, we may not be able to change certain undesirable aspects of ourselves. In that case, the only sensible approach is to accept it for what it is - no matter what the external world may have been feeding you, remember that everyone is equally worthy the exact way they are. Beauty is subjective. Learn to appreciate yourself, even if the world will not appreciate you, because you deserve it as much as anyone else does. At the end of the day, it is your opinion of yourself that matters most.

[Katrina]

You see, we are programmed mentally and emotionally since conception by genetics, parents, school-teachers and other social authority figures; until being and accepting just who you are is soooooo difficult! To get clear, one has to learn how to undo the programming, and become Who You Really Are...

[icyicy]

i am in that stage but its alright...

[Cazzman]

i feel a little uneasy advising you directly, but it sounds like you need to come to terms with who you are, you cant change it and so learn to love who you are mate. About the people looking down on you, screw them theyre not the boss of you, you are. Show them that they shouldnt look down on you by being confident about who you are, chin up man