just found out

[autumncook]

so my dads wife friended me on facebook and on her page it said that they moved to washington state last febuary and they didnt tell me or anything she sent me a message on facebook and said that it was an unexpected move and they are sorry they didnt tell me and want me to come and see them but i would have to fly across the country and i am terrified of flying and i dont want to see them anyway and i told them no and they said i needed to be a part of their family and then she posted on her wall they are thinking of have another kid and all of her friends and family said it would be good for hannah to have a sibling insted of being an only child and its like i dont exist except once or twice a year

[Kahn]

Well.. It is ultimately your choice. You said you were scared of flying, and it was rude for them to not tell you they were moving. I know I was pissed when my father put the house up for sale and I didn't learn about it until a month later.

From personal experience, I wouldn't go. It would be awkward, and you are obviously mad at them. I would just let everything cool down, and then think about it. Hope this'll help.

[Wish]

I can understand how you would feel left out of everything and a little like you aren't wanted. Have you spoken to them about the fact that you are feeling left out and voiced your feelings? I am sorry that you have a fear of flying that is preventing so much, I wonder if you have tried ways to challenge this. It was wrong of them not to tell you something so drastic, but please don't let it impact on the way you feel about yourself.

[MaliciousBunface]

That's pretty rude of your parents, you should really try and tell them how you feel because they didnt tell you that they moved..and you should also try and find a way to conquer your fear, if u want to...just try and let them know how u feel

[Hyper]

Quite honestly my supposed father doesn't tell me shit

So if you at least heard it from them, and love your father a little I would suggest you suck it up and go there, if you keep a open head it can be fun and you might ''fit in''

If the woman is a proven b*** and you don't feel that close with your father - well fine the choice is yours

But if something is offered to you - take it - family is something you just can't get anywhere but through a long time commitment, trust & love.

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

Sweetie you just need to keep in conatct with hannah and remind her all the time that you'll be there for her and it should be yor choice weather you wanna see them or not, no one can force toy to do anything you don't want to.

[autumncook]

Sweetie you just need to keep in conatct with hannah and remind her all the time that you'll be there for her and it should be yor choice weather you wanna see them or not, no one can force toy to do anything you don't want to.

i have never even met hannah and i dont want to go and well i cant go because i was going to fly to disney world with my family and i couldnt even get on the plane so we drove and i know i cant fly across the country if i couldnt fly 2 hours

[Hollywood]

if you dont want to go, then dont go. you are your own person, you can make your own decisions. however, if its just because you are afraid of flying, then, well, dont be afraid! ive flown about 10 times, and everything is fine, they treat you really well and the seats are pretty comfortable as well :)

thats insane that they would completely ignore you and tell you "oh by the way, we moved to another state". thats just, crazy, and its wrong. I know how you feel, my dad went off and got engaged and didnt tell me until like a week before the wedding, not that i cared or anything.

in my opinion, i dont think you should go see them, they dont sound like the type of people that would love to see you. pm me if you have any more questions