J/o with friends - IT CAN HELP

[Cazzman]

I know there are THOUSANDS of posts about this, but mine comes with a difference.

I'm really sick of people saying 'it can ruin your friendships so avoid it all all costs'. Imo if you handle it right and make sure ur not pressuring them into doing it or forcing your nakedness upon them and make sure theyre willing, then it can actually BOOST you relationship.

I know cus this happened between me and two other friends, and there were no unpleasant aftershocks because we handled it really well and we were all happy too.

Any thoughts?

[Peace God]

well if they are or end up homophobic and some borderline gay sht goes down, there is definitely gonna be a lot of awkwardness in the future

unfortunately in this society people might be pressured into regretting something like that

[fohawk]

i have done with my friends its nothing we talk about outside of it but we still do and enjoy and i am even going over to his house later so we can jack off together and hang out but it will only become awkward if you dont discuss it and make sure you made or are making the right choice

[Antares]

Thats good for you too but it honestly can ruin friendships.

If you ask your best friend to masturbate with him, he could be insulted and never talk to you again or worse.

People just advise caution when trying to do that

[Jmann]

well to me it depends on the person i jack off with. idk if it really boost the relationship

[beedubs]

i get what you meen. think of it, you obviosly can trust that person, and if it goes well (nobody tells anyone) then it can strengthen your trust

[cody2010]

I know there are THOUSANDS of posts about this, but mine comes with a difference.

I'm really sick of people saying 'it can ruin your friendships so avoid it all all costs'. Imo if you handle it right and make sure ur not pressuring them into doing it or forcing your nakedness upon them and make sure theyre willing, then it can actually BOOST you relationship.

I know cus this happened between me and two other friends, and there were no unpleasant aftershocks because we handled it really well and we were all happy too.

Any thoughts?

i completely agree. me and my friends tried it, and we're a lot closer and more open with each other.

[Cazzman]

Good to hear people aggreeing, thought I was the only person with this view

[Cazzman]

Thats good for you too but it honestly can ruin friendships.

If you ask your best friend to masturbate with him, he could be insulted and never talk to you again or worse.

People just advise caution when trying to do that

I'm sorry to question your opinion, but honestly I dont think that if you asked a friend to jack off with him and he didnt want to that he'd never talk to you again. Yeah, he might think you were a bit weird, but something as serious as youve suggested would only happen if you were pressuring him into it or trying to force him to do it against his will. There's no harm in asking, the worst he can do is say no. But I agree with you that caution should be advised

[colts199406]

i agree w/ cazzman bro lol

[hhhh]

i think it helps develop freindships

[Hollywood]

it can help or destroy a frienship
it just depends how open they are and what their sexual prefrences are, and how you approach it.
but everyone is right, it is a risk

[icyicy]

think this is right - can really help. opens the relationship up...

[Atonement]

Though it can help, its very rare that it can. Yes, if one goes about it appropriately, and there is no pressure, and they are both mature enough to handle it, I don't see why not. But 9 times out of 10, that's not the case.

[dovepengo]

i mite if they asked but i think id sound crazy if i asked

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think it could help make you and your budd closer, as in "better" friends, but if they turn out to be like total homophobes or something like that then it could ruin your relationship with them.

[GamerX20]

i have done it in the past, just messing around i guess. did not really mean anything

[Lovin Life]

It all depends on how your friend feels. If he is not ready, then it can ruin friendships. I speak from experience.

[joshm]

After doing it with my friend, me and him don't talk at all. It became WAY too akward. I guess everyone's cases can be diffrent.

[Cazzman]

It seems everyone has a different situation here which makes this a little complicated

[curiousgorge]

I wish my friends would wanna jo with me but its just that I know they wont wanna and I might ruin my relationship completly so im afraid to ask

[dman18]

ive done it, but i didnt feel any change in our friendship, you both just have to be open to it

[CaluM.]

It all depends on the person and the relationship you currently have with them.

[outcast123]

yes...it can ruin it big time.....

[wolfbird_94]

It matter on who your Friends are...

[lolboi06]

that its true it can totally help with ur friendship cuz it did with mine just as long you didint force them then there is nothing to worry about :)

[Suicune]

That's great that it works for you, but it doesn't mean it works for everybody.
It can ruin or make a friendship better, everybody just suggests caution.

[kyler]

Ive done it once with a better frend of mine, we talkd abt it a cpl times and ended up doin tht once. no touchin or nuthin we were jst curius and prob wudnt do it again. It didnt change our frendship at all but I cant see doin tht wit any of my othr frends tho it cud be a problem.

[BlitzPlayer]

Idk why me or my friends would want to jack off with eachother, and we do some crazy stuff

[LlamasRus]

Good to hear people aggreeing, thought I was the only person with this view


I've done it with one friend, twice. I agree that you MUST handle it right. If you don't it WILL be awkward(take it from me) we went about it totally wrong. I was at a very volnerable point in my life, and he took advantage of that and I was easily swayed into doing it. And once we got down to business he forced me to let him give me a bj (weird, right?) but anyways we were uber awkward after that and it took months for it to get back to normal.

[Forever.Nandos]

Delete.

[Silver13]

ur right it works if u and ur friends agree to do it

its a whole other story if u force them to do it

[Trackstar29]

Good for you :D

[Trackstar29]

Lucky you, glad everything went well

[wwhat]

I've done it with one friend, twice. I agree that you MUST handle it right. If you don't it WILL be awkward(take it from me) we went about it totally wrong. I was at a very volnerable point in my life, and he took advantage of that and I was easily swayed into doing it. And once we got down to business he forced me to let him give me a bj (weird, right?) but anyways we were uber awkward after that and it took months for it to get back to normal.

i find your predicament very relatable to mine. i won't go into detail (because comparably, mine is much worse), but i was sucked into this kind of thing when i was 10 and still find myself having problems with things like this because my friend (who was older than me at the time) took it way too far and now we aren't friends anymore. i do think it's a good way to build on relationships but it can cause damage that can last for a lifetime, so use your own judgement when you do this kind of thing.