I dont understand..

[wavey]

Everything was great on wednesday night! we hit it off bigstyle...
She got a phone call and had to go..
she didnt text until later..
her message was this.
Sorry chris, i got wrong, i had to tell the truth they know we were at the park nd went over the other side...

I told her what does this mean, can we still see each other, the reply was "i dont know" "its pointless being toegther....." she says
I text back saying we can still be friends but i want to work this out.

I am getting no reply.. i have phoned to only have it hung up...

I am really upset.. i love her. i always will.. i think her father is a bastard and i want to just sort this all out.. please any advice?

this is all making me too upset.. i cant get to talk to her.. she wont reply to texts... i think shes upset but.. i dont think i cna go on after this..

[Brayden]

Could you be a bit more specific? Did her parent (dad) figure out that you had been spending time with her when you shouldn't, and that he didn't know how to find her?

If that's the case, her dad's frustration is definitely justified. If you really care about her, I'd recommend talking to her dad, regardless of how uncomfortable it might be. Depending on your age, you really do need her parent's approval if you want to spend time with her. It sucks and it can be completely unfair, but you could get in legal trouble, which is DEFINITELY a bad thing.

[wavey]

thing is... im 16 shes 15.. i really love her and her dad doesnt normally see her leave the house, she just sits on msn alot.. like alot of girls.
and her dad is over protective.. she wont pick up the phone.. this is getting me to a point i just want to end everything and not worry.

Her dad ive never met... i just want to sort this out.

[Brayden]

Her dad ive never met... i just want to sort this out.

There's your problem. And unless her dad is a complete fucking twat, he should be able to understand your situation. On at least some level. Talking to him may (no, definitely will) be extremely awkward, but I see no way around it.

[wavey]

mate i only saw her for one night. then she was told off for going out to see a lad and now this hits me.. wtf is going on.

[Brayden]

You only saw her the one night, and you're already in love? I'd wait to cool down a bit, see how you feel in the morning or something.

But still, if her dad is the one that has a problem that has a problem with you being together, and you and the girl really do want to be together, I don't see any real way to get around dealing with her father at some point. Unless you plan on eloping, I hear Vegas is nice.

[ErykaInspire.]

Any girl that takes you for granted and won't appreciate what you do for her, isn't worth your time. You have to respect yourself and try not to let girls walk on you like that. I'm sure you're a very nice guy, but 'love'ing someone without spending real time with them is taking it a bit fast. Give her some time, i'm sure she'll come around. If not, send her a message explaining how you don't want her to give up on what could be the best relationship of her life. Other than that, try not to get TOO upset over it.

Best of luck, hun. Message me if you need to(:
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