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strata8
March 25th, 2010, 07:08 AM
Do you ever feel embarrassed when your bulge is showing? Sometimes I do, especially when it's really obvious, like when you're wearing sports shorts and the wind blows in your direction...

nick
March 25th, 2010, 08:22 AM
An erection in PE shorts or swimming shorts can be kinda embarassing, but not otherwise.

Standard Stick
March 25th, 2010, 06:09 PM
all the time

Hollywood
March 25th, 2010, 06:11 PM
it can sometimes be emabressing, i just try not to think of anything sexual

cherry_boi
March 25th, 2010, 06:11 PM
if if i'm wearing loose bottoms...like in PE and i get a boner then yea kind of embarrassing, but no big deal really

if i'm soft and u can see my bulge i don't really care...nuthing u can really do about it so why not flaunt it? >.<

dwl8fl
March 25th, 2010, 08:09 PM
it can sometimes be emabressing, but i just try not to think of anything sexual

Silent
March 25th, 2010, 09:39 PM
I feel embarrassed all the time......Not so much that its there is the fact that someone will say somthing about it.

Kitty Purry
March 25th, 2010, 10:50 PM
I only get embarassed by it, when it's really obvious like in gym shorts stuff like that, :P

randomlyonhere
March 26th, 2010, 12:16 AM
i am the same way, mine curvs so i cant do the tuck under the waist band thing, wich kinda sucks but oh well

hiker1992
March 26th, 2010, 01:27 AM
I don't think I would, especially given the fact that IF mine was showing, it would mean that I'm actually large enough to be visible through my jeans, rather than just having any bulge blend in. Erections are certainly embarassing though.

con_RAD_
March 26th, 2010, 01:34 AM
well, honestly, i rarel have an obvious bulge to be embarrassed about :/

the one time i am self-conscious about it, is wen i come outta a pool and my swim shorts r clinging to my body, and my penis is SO OBVIOUS...i think if i had a big penis i wouldn't care, but wen that happens i keep thinking, "DAMN, every1's gunna think my dick is tiny"
haha

Omgthatsme
March 26th, 2010, 02:08 AM
I'm not.

alightsei
March 26th, 2010, 06:04 AM
well, actually I felt kind of a big embarrassed.. But, I don't care what people think about my bulge. hehehe..

Zero Beat
March 26th, 2010, 06:20 AM
The most time i get a bulge is on the bus, with a ton of girls around **BTW Im gay** lol so i get embarrassed, cause then i has to get off the bus at school xD

bluestarkidd
March 26th, 2010, 06:39 AM
I do if I am walking around, because you can notice it more. If I am sitting or laying down, its easier to hide it.

Mr. Smithers
March 26th, 2010, 07:24 AM
No, and why should I? If it happens, it happens. Don't make a big deal about it. Ask someone to take a picture if they notice it. Kidding about that last statement of course. :)

SimplyTom
March 26th, 2010, 08:58 AM
well it happens and its nothing to be embarrassed about i just try and think of something else.

Brayden
March 26th, 2010, 09:05 AM
I'm not embarrassed at all to be honest. As a matter of fact, when I'm chilling with my mates in just my boxers, and my bulge is somewhat apparent I feel sort of "har har, my dick is so obviously bigger than yours. Wish you you were me"

It's not a big deal. All guys (unless they're tragically tiny) have at least somewhat of a bulge. It's a non-issue, and most of the time people will ignore it. I, however you get hard, then it's quite possible that your mates will make fun of you. However, again, it's a completely normal, biological process. So don't put any more into it than that.

dantheman5000
March 26th, 2010, 10:17 AM
not really any more! i used to feel that way but ever since i posted a thread about it im not embarresed any more!

guacamole24
March 26th, 2010, 03:36 PM
Not really. If I got it, Imma rock it.

GeneralCrash70
March 26th, 2010, 03:42 PM
Haha, nope, I'm proud of mine, I like it. I just don't like the impromptu occasional boner... wrecks my style...

Cazzman
March 26th, 2010, 06:30 PM
i dont tend to get boners in the changing room so that aint an issue but if im soft and you can see it i really dont mind having it showing, everyone im around has one so...

CestDan
March 26th, 2010, 07:09 PM
Yeah, I have been embarrassed sometimes lol. Anyway, every time it happens I hide it XD

josh93
March 26th, 2010, 07:36 PM
No i dont it just part of life and it feels good to.

Jmann
March 26th, 2010, 10:42 PM
i sometimes do but it depends really. i luckly have never had a boner at pe

MykeSoBe
March 26th, 2010, 10:58 PM
I love when that happens. Not embarrassed at all. And I never get them in PE like i want to happen damn it.

marc_shawn
April 9th, 2010, 01:42 AM
i dont care if im with guys

melara
April 9th, 2010, 02:28 AM
why be embarresed embrave what you got be happy that you dont have to wear a budgi smuggler (aka speedo) like i have to. now you dont wanna get hard in that.

BMILLER
April 9th, 2010, 02:47 AM
never be embarrased be proud lol

dman18
April 9th, 2010, 03:30 AM
O hate erections, they are the most annoying thing for a guy

YourFriend
April 9th, 2010, 07:11 AM
I actually feel good showing my bulge lol. And i never got an erection at a time when someone would notice.

Setzer
April 9th, 2010, 01:24 PM
today while having dinner I had and extremely hard bulge, it lasted a lot ç_ç I was so imbarassed -.-

wolfbird_94
April 9th, 2010, 02:02 PM
Like when I'm in the car with my parents and my sister..... I So Hate it!

obknobe
April 9th, 2010, 02:09 PM
Wear it PROUDLY my man! Heh heh. . .

Lodge
April 9th, 2010, 04:17 PM
I don't get them much in school anymore but they are if someone notices or in the pool. When I first read this I thought you meant bulge like the type that you get when wearing briefs/boxer-briefs

Joeyy7892
April 23rd, 2010, 01:39 AM
LOL yeah, I'm like that all the time, that's one of the reasons why I never wear shorts/basketball shorts. It's really out there lmaoo, that and I have really pale legs lhaha

Zero Beat
April 23rd, 2010, 02:08 AM
Yes i do, like when on the bus or something or during class and then i always seems to somehow have to walk up the front in front of everyone :(

Konnor
April 23rd, 2010, 09:19 PM
Do you ever feel embarrassed when your bulge is showing? Sometimes I do, especially when it's really obvious, like when you're wearing sports shorts and the wind blows in your direction...

i know exactly what you mean about the wind. i just turn around

KuroiFuchi13
April 23rd, 2010, 09:32 PM
No i take pride in my bulge ;P

salamandr
April 24th, 2010, 12:13 AM
i usually wear jeans so it's not obvious but if i'm wearing like basketball shorts or sweats it can be...not usually a problem. althogh if i'm with friends it's no problem we're cool with each other like that.

sfmdraw
April 24th, 2010, 03:23 PM
Sometimes it's awkward, like when I'm wearing swim trunks or gym shorts, and even then it's worse when I have an erection, aha.

Iron Man
April 24th, 2010, 05:03 PM
Unless I get an erection, then no.

Trackstar29
May 16th, 2010, 09:43 AM
Pshh nah, i take pride it it lol

aerobooster
May 24th, 2010, 02:09 PM
You shouldn't be embarassed, it implies there is something great down there...

toobig
May 24th, 2010, 02:30 PM
i always have a bulge whatever i'm wearing, it get annoying but it's something i'll have to get used to, i just hate friends who say hahaha you've got a stiffy, and i'm like umm no it's not, then they're like :eek:

ThomasB.
May 24th, 2010, 03:10 PM
Oh God yh.. But usually only in PE when its really obvious, if I know i've got one I fon't do it lol :whoops:

Buddy
May 24th, 2010, 07:23 PM
no, i like it :D

dmeek7
May 24th, 2010, 07:29 PM
i dont really get embarassed. it barely ever shows unless i am wearing regular boxers and it come out the little hole in the front, but i wear compression shorts most of the time

GeneralCrash70
May 24th, 2010, 09:24 PM
Not in the slightest, I always get stares from chicks, and they're very satisfied stares... Makes me feel good that I made their day...

Xenomi
May 24th, 2010, 09:33 PM
Not really, unless it's like really noticable. Like if I'm sports shorts I get a little embarrassed and try to hide it. But, if I'm wearing jeans or normal shorts I actually try to get people to notice lol

xxsgboixx
May 24th, 2010, 10:41 PM
So far, no one has seen my bulge but I do have erections in buses, in class but if Im sitting down, I would wait for few mins then once it's soft, I would get up. But when mine's soft, there's a shape of it even when I wear uniform, or any kind of pants. Weird huh, but I tried to cover it with anything.

Michael52
May 24th, 2010, 10:45 PM
If it's just my regular bulge and not caused by a boner then I'm not embarrassed at all

ryan213
May 24th, 2010, 10:56 PM
im not embarressed about it cause mines big enough that if i see someone looking at it i say you can look but dont touch

pump_it_good
May 25th, 2010, 02:06 AM
not really i like it cuz its like showing off your dick saying its bigger. well mines big so i dont mind. I think i look hot like that. lol all the girls looking. thats awesome. ;)

ZackAttack
May 25th, 2010, 06:32 PM
only embarassed if im wearing something tight, or bxr brfs, and its in one of those semi or long moods, and yer like, "no man, its not boned!"

cole
May 25th, 2010, 08:19 PM
only embarrassed when i get a random boner in public

Texasdude3241
May 26th, 2010, 01:06 AM
Does not embarass me at all.

toobig
May 26th, 2010, 10:56 AM
only embarrassed when i get a random boner in public

i'm lucky i dnt get random boners, lol

abcd920
May 26th, 2010, 06:04 PM
i hate it cuz im not really big so its kinda in embrassing for me

joestephan
May 31st, 2010, 03:13 PM
yah, when someone notices it outside the changing room

mikephelps
May 31st, 2010, 03:19 PM
I'm embaressed cause I do'n have a bulge even when I have my speedos on for swimming

ImCoolBeans
May 31st, 2010, 04:45 PM
ehh people dont usually notice

justsomekid
May 31st, 2010, 04:53 PM
WELL EVERYONE'S SHOWS so what's there to be embarassed about?

The Dark Lord
May 31st, 2010, 05:12 PM
I don't have much of a bulge so I have nothing to be embarrassed about!

quinnbyron
May 31st, 2010, 07:14 PM
when i'm wearing athletic shorts yeah it's a little embarrassing, but i don't usually get boners when i'm wearing them.

tormag20
May 31st, 2010, 07:48 PM
yeah but that never happened to me recently which is good. it gets hard sometimes to hide it, but usually when it happens your not around hot girls or someone who would actually point it out.

loverboy69
August 11th, 2010, 06:18 PM
sometimes

crazycoller
August 11th, 2010, 07:59 PM
For me it all depends who is around... sometimes that can be more beneficial than embarrassing ;-)

Brandon K
August 11th, 2010, 09:47 PM
no not really

loverboy69
August 11th, 2010, 09:54 PM
Not really

JJSSHH
August 12th, 2010, 01:35 PM
totally

playa85
August 12th, 2010, 01:44 PM
Agreed.....embarrasing...especially around family....lol

TheDarkKnight
August 12th, 2010, 02:19 PM
happened to me. I was 12 and went swim with my classmates (bout 22 people). I wore boxerbriefs (were really tight) and Ive got a boner .. everybody could see my dick :c now I always wear boxershorts. Sorry for my english I still learn :)

quackda93
August 12th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Sometimes it's super embarrasing... one time I had a boner and I think a lot of people noticed :confused: but luckily no one said anything

Blue6201
August 12th, 2010, 04:49 PM
Yeah i dont rly care if people see my bulge

TopGear
August 12th, 2010, 05:50 PM
not really

FYI: This is a bumped thread!

VTry007
August 12th, 2010, 06:36 PM
Doesn't that natural bulge in your pants, cutoffs, shorts or speedo make you look sexy? I think so. It's one of those things that gives a guy sex appeal.

Of course a boner is a different story because everyone knows what is happening.

Jamarama
August 12th, 2010, 06:48 PM
Boners are embarassing, yeah.

But a normal bulge? Nah. I don't mind letting it show lol. I've got quite a big bulge, so it's fun when people start to look :p

Example: Getting changed in a hotel room with two schoolmates, in boxers, bulge showing. One was busy, the other one just sat there staring!

Syndicate
August 12th, 2010, 07:48 PM
To be honest i don't care if people see mine, we all know what each other has anyway

wtblife
August 12th, 2010, 08:05 PM
I'm constantly making sure there isn't a bulge while soft, but idk if I really find it embarrassing, I definitely don't like showing the bulge though. I can't imagine wearing a speedo at this age cause most guys don't seem to have much of a bulge, but I'm a shower so there would be a noticeable bulge that I couldn't hide.

Joeyy7892
August 12th, 2010, 09:55 PM
YES! I have no idea why, and I tried to explain this to my friend and he didn't understand. Like, I have NOTHING to be ashamed of, trust me ahah. But anyway ahha, that's the reason why I don't wear shorts ahaha, I have literally no pairs of shorts, all I wear are jeans, except when I got swimming. but yeah, I don't know why that is.

broncofan523
August 12th, 2010, 11:26 PM
I get embarassed all the time cuz all I wear is basketball shorts and I try to hide it most of the time

chris4
August 13th, 2010, 12:10 AM
being embarrased isnt really a bad thing when it comes to this. its GOOD that we have a strong emotion to alert us to cover it up because its not appropriate in most places. Its like having chocolate all over your face---it's not appropriate in most places and while some immature people might point and laugh, most will just find it uncomfortable that you are okay with it (assuming you know you have a boner or chocolate on ur face)

you gotta love my analogies.

OnlyOneChance
August 13th, 2010, 12:50 AM
Why feel embarased lol... be glad u havea buldge ahah Some people dont... m glad i do!

chris4
August 13th, 2010, 12:50 AM
Why feel embarased lol... be glad u havea buldge ahah Some people dont... m glad i do!

everyone can have a bulge.

DanielBoy
August 13th, 2010, 02:34 AM
I only get embarassed by it, when it's really obvious like in gym shorts stuff like that, :P

I used to, but now I am proud of it. :D It is all a confidence thing.

Teenage Art
August 13th, 2010, 06:01 AM
My pants makes me bulge and people ask me if I'm hard and I was like, NO! Its meh pants.

aNicerNote
August 27th, 2010, 12:03 PM
Its really embarrassing especially if theres girls around. i try to hide it but doesn't work. D:

SurfDudeJason
August 27th, 2010, 02:04 PM
who cares? I used to be really paranoid but now I dont care. nature dudes

kenshin8106
August 27th, 2010, 02:14 PM
sumtimes, but most guys, who have average penis size, have a bulge, so its kind of just expected, if your hard tho..then ya, sucks to be you XD just try to keep ur mind off of that stuff

Judas
August 27th, 2010, 07:06 PM
If it's an erection bulge - then yes. But usually in my swim trunks, I don't mind about my bulge.

notsure101
August 27th, 2010, 07:41 PM
It happens to everybody but yea its embarissing

GeneralCrash70
August 27th, 2010, 09:52 PM
Nope, I show that monster off, lol

Errr
August 28th, 2010, 03:43 AM
Heck yeah, like in gym doing sit ups, or ANYthing laying down, like all the guys kinda half do it cuz i mean, you lay down you see...well...the whole thing lol

Tadgh
August 28th, 2010, 11:08 AM
Whenever I get my boner when wearing sports shorts I just put my penis in the elastic strap on the waist, It works all the time!

LittleMonsterMike
August 28th, 2010, 06:50 PM
I only feel embarrassed when i have a bulge around girl when i'm hanging with my guys and i get a boner i'm not embarrassed because they understand that i can't control that. and it's also find it funny cause on of my friends said my bulge was huge

Wisconsin
October 10th, 2010, 12:49 PM
i would be but my whole life has been based that sex and anything to do with it is very taboo...but then i moved in with my mom...we dont talk about it and she knos i j/o and late at night is when i do it and she knos it so when she needs me she txts me lol (off topic i kno) but yes i am embarrased when my bulge is visible even now living with my ma

penutpanther81
October 10th, 2010, 01:46 PM
i am some times and other times im not

neigh
October 31st, 2010, 02:17 AM
yes embarrassed - red faced -- not because of a bulge but for the lack of one --lol

toobig
October 31st, 2010, 02:24 AM
i've got use to my massive bulge, but i use to be so self consious about it

jimmy-magic
October 31st, 2010, 02:46 AM
not really, when im with the boys ill try and draw attention to it to see if they notice haha.

Bharris13
November 1st, 2010, 03:24 PM
i always have a bulge whatever i'm wearing, it get annoying but it's something i'll have to get used to, i just hate friends who say hahaha you've got a stiffy, and i'm like umm no it's not, then they're like :eek:

I get that as well. But, they don't always believe u and once i got really fed up of being called a liar and proved i wasn't hard. That shut them up.

matthewperry
December 19th, 2010, 11:46 PM
yes i hate when it happens

CaliKiDD
December 19th, 2010, 11:50 PM
mine is pretty big sooo nope

Colin
December 20th, 2010, 12:25 AM
Yes, I'm so insecure. When I'm soft and where PE shorts or sweatpants my bulge is large and sticks out and people always point it out. Even though it's mostly compliments, I still get embarrassed.

chris4562
December 20th, 2010, 12:48 AM
not really but if im in PE in gym shorts and i have a boner that embarrassing
so i try not to check the girls out too much lol

Night_Hawk
December 20th, 2010, 12:53 AM
yeah, I always gotta have my hands in my pockets or stand awkwardly and hope no one sees it -.-

NoLongerInUse
December 20th, 2010, 02:59 AM
depends where im at or when, but often i am embarass

CBTurner
December 20th, 2010, 03:03 AM
Normally I would, but we don't look at people's bulges in gym.

ZxSpectrum
December 20th, 2010, 03:03 AM
yeah, but i secretly want someone to see it really bad.

nick_14
December 20th, 2010, 03:14 AM
im not embarassed even they saw my bulge.
its natural. anyone gets erection unexpextedly so why bother?
well, thats for me.

Bharris13
December 20th, 2010, 03:39 PM
I no I have posted on this thread b4 but i didnt answer the main question.
I rarely get embarrassed about my bulge becoz it proves that i'm not a liar. But in certain situations it can be inconvenient of course.

DreamSeeker
December 20th, 2010, 03:42 PM
Yeah all the time, worst of all my trousers always seem to bend in that area. So it always looks like I have a bulge when I don't :/ Hate it.

josh93
December 20th, 2010, 03:49 PM
No i neaver really feel embarrassed about my bulge.

gmhs2012
December 20th, 2010, 05:12 PM
Can be embarassing at certain times, but if i begin to feel it i just try not to think of anything sexual

mzakpitt
December 20th, 2010, 05:27 PM
yeah hahaha they always seem to happen when girls are around too! I don't really care if im around guys and tht happens cuz we all have the same thing anyway

GryffindorSeeker
December 20th, 2010, 10:30 PM
Sometimes it's embarrassing but really it depends on who's around. If it's just my close friends I don't really care..

smitty35
December 22nd, 2010, 05:41 PM
I do sometimes, but we all should be proud of our bulges i guess, lol

WellHung
December 23rd, 2010, 04:38 AM
not really, im proud of it and dont mind if anyone sees my bulge

teenboi14
December 29th, 2010, 08:01 PM
Yes! I'm the exact same...especially when it's a boner. :/ lol

guil1214
December 30th, 2010, 12:30 AM
you should just be happy that your dick is long enough to actually show a bulge.

teenageapplelover
December 30th, 2010, 12:43 AM
I go to a prude and conservative school that doesn't even offer sexual education. It's embarrassing because the issue (of erections) has never been addressed with everyone that it happens completely randomly all the time, not just during sexual activity.

hollisterboi95
December 30th, 2010, 03:00 AM
I hate it When I wear skinny jeans and I'm waking in the hall way and my dick starts to rub against my leg then I get hard while walking in the hall way it is so fckong obvious and I can't don anything cuz either way ppl will notice...

Nilnoc
December 30th, 2010, 03:07 AM
Never had that happen

sjfz
December 30th, 2010, 03:30 AM
I hate it When I wear skinny jeans and I'm waking in the hall way and my dick starts to rub against my leg then I get hard while walking in the hall way it is so fckong obvious and I can't don anything cuz either way ppl will notice...

same here man haha, but i don't wear skinny jeans all that much anymore.

teenageapplelover
December 30th, 2010, 01:01 PM
I hate it When I wear skinny jeans and I'm waking in the hall way and my dick starts to rub against my leg then I get hard while walking in the hall way it is so fckong obvious and I can't don anything cuz either way ppl will notice...

YES!!! I haaaate that. That's why I try to wear briefs when I wear skinny jeans.

Craig1995
December 30th, 2010, 04:57 PM
Erections are embarrassing but a girl in the year above complimented on my bulge when I was leaving pe it was a bit awkward and I'm not straight but still nice to be noticed... Lol

UnknownError
December 30th, 2010, 05:00 PM
Erections are like the most embarressing thing ever in school or public or whatever. :L

Just _1_ Look
December 30th, 2010, 05:12 PM
It can be at times

ShootTheRunner
December 31st, 2010, 09:08 PM
Nope, it's quite fun to show off a bulge lol some people can't resist staring :p

Trevoooor
December 31st, 2010, 09:26 PM
I am, a little bit.

cantwebefriends
December 31st, 2010, 09:49 PM
Hahaha depends on the situation if im with good friends we just laugh but when i wake up in the morning half asleeep with woood around family its not funny hahahah

eggs2006
January 2nd, 2011, 02:50 PM
Erections are embarrassing but a girl in the year above complimented on my bulge when I was leaving pe it was a bit awkward and I'm not straight but still nice to be noticed... Lol

What did she say?

Apollo.
January 2nd, 2011, 03:29 PM
Yeah I do but I don't get one much lol:)

jmac96
January 3rd, 2011, 07:32 PM
I always have a bulge everytime I wear basketball shorts, sweatpants etc and I am not embarassed at all. I go get looks every now and then but I honestly don't really care