Bi...... Maybe

[Mattyboy2]

For about 6 months ive considered myself bi, I hav a gf who I hav had sex wiv and "experiment" wiv my best friend quite alot. But I think it's turning into more than experimenting.

So the problem is I think I'm in love with my gf but can't tell her, and me and my best friends "experimentin" is getting to critical levels but I'm not sure I want it to carry on..... But I'm still attracted to him!?
I'm not sure what to do or how to feel from here :(

[Nelson]

Ok, I dont have much experience here considering i was always bi, but your situation is odd, Your girlfriend may possibly dump you, but then you could have a relationship with your best friend.. Your options are very different.

Just go with your heart. PM me if you want to talk ok

[Bonus]

I think you can get from both.
You dont have to tell them about the other relationship.

[Kitty Purry]

Well to do te right thing you have to choose which one you want more, are you with this guy just for sexual reasons? It kinda seems like you ate but I don't know. And you said you love your girlfriend so that seems to me that you want her more. Make sure you make the right choice, and think with the "right head" lol :P

[Fusion]

For about 6 months ive considered myself bi, I hav a gf who I hav had sex wiv and "experiment" wiv my best friend quite alot. But I think it's turning into more than experimenting.

So the problem is I think I'm in love with my gf but can't tell her, and me and my best friends "experimentin" is getting to critical levels but I'm not sure I want it to carry on..... But I'm still attracted to him!?
I'm not sure what to do or how to feel from here :(

You really need to make a decision weather you are going to keep going with this friend, I would stop messing around with one of them, to be honest as if they found out otherwise, they probably could never forgive you for cheating.

Who do you see yourself in a relationship with more?

[jojo11282]

well i would always be with someone becuase i loved them now with a boy he probably doesn't love u and if u feel he does then is he openly bi or gay becuase if not it means he does want a realationship with u but just wants the pleasure

[Disconected]

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[Mattyboy2]

Thanx guys... I'm trying to build up the courage to tell either one it's over..... I just can't seem to decide who i want to be wiv.
Everytime I want my gf my best friend changes my mind and the uva way round.... I wish this had nvr started it's not gonna end pretty :(

[chazzrox2]

Well it's def. an annoying situation Matt, it might be better just to come clean but then I don't know the kinda people ur talking about.
If it all goes pete tong atleast u've had some experience most people don't hav for years